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View Jacey's Profile Jacey Flag 19 Feb 15 6.07pm Send a Private Message to Jacey Add Jacey as a friend

We live in a nice detached bungalow and since 2010 have endured a neighbour who over this period has reported us for illegally throwing garden waste into the wrong bin,playing loud music from a 1 watt radio from my garage at 11am, while exercising on my treadmill, complaining that we had installed an illegal brick block drive without planning permission.
Over the last 6 months ,just as we are about to sit down for lunch, he has taken to slamming a sledge hammer onto his garage floor, which has now taken a toll on my wife's health.
All his allegations have been dismissed by the authorities and we have not sought legal advice as we have no wish for their to be any record of a neighbour dispute when we eventually sell the property when house prices eventually recover in our area.
He has also told lies about my wife and i to other neighbours, several who will not speak to us, suggesting that we are perhaps benefit claimants or in some way, on the fiddle, which we are not.We have both worked very hard all our lives for what we have and there may be a degree of jealousy as we enjoy a comfortable lifestyle.
A Palace fan of 40 yrs standing, made the mistake of leaving the Croydon area to retire down on the South Coast.
Any suggestions of how i could reasonably deal with this problem would be very much appreciated.
Thanking you in anticipation.

 

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Catfish Flag Burgess Hill 19 Feb 15 6.23pm

Depends on how long you intend staying and whether you think the neighbour will move on himself. The most obvious first step is to try and talk to him and try the "we are sensible mature adults and both want a quiet life" approach. If that fails I would suggest asking informal advice from the local council.
Keep a record of every incident with dates, time, duration, any conversations you have and names of witnesses. None of this will be any use though unless you have made repeated polite, calm and reasonable approaches to try and reach a compromise.
If it does come to a formal dispute then you need a long standing diary of events that, when taken as a whole, adds up to a pattern of antisocial behaviour.

 


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View Kermit8's Profile Kermit8 Flag Hevon 19 Feb 15 6.27pm Send a Private Message to Kermit8 Add Kermit8 as a friend

Other options are; actually do stuff to get his goat so at least when he does complain he is not just doing it to cause you stress which he is now.

Have a face to face.

Accept he is mentally ill and sell your house on the quiet.

 


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View Helmet46's Profile Helmet46 Flag Croydon 19 Feb 15 6.54pm Send a Private Message to Helmet46 Add Helmet46 as a friend

Post his name, address and phone number on here and let nature takes it's course?

 

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View Kermit8's Profile Kermit8 Flag Hevon 19 Feb 15 6.56pm Send a Private Message to Kermit8 Add Kermit8 as a friend

Quote Helmet46 at 19 Feb 2015 6.54pm

Post his name, address and phone number on here and let nature takes it's course?


hadn't thought of that.

Edited by Kermit8 (19 Feb 2015 6.56pm)

 


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View Percy of Peckham's Profile Percy of Peckham Flag Eton Mess 19 Feb 15 7.33pm Send a Private Message to Percy of Peckham Add Percy of Peckham as a friend

Take some legal advice ...you don't necessarily have to implement any action. A letter from your solicitor may be sufficient to shut him up but moving away may be the only solution for your total peace of mind.

I once had a thug for a neighbour and fell out with him over a blocked drain which was nothing to do with us. (My son and I don't use tampons!!!). He threatened me and I stood up to him face to face - nothing of course happened. However, soon afterwards there were overnight attacks on my property - gouges on the bodywork of my car, plants dug up etc. Total scumbag - even when we were on speaking terms he was boasting of having contacts who'd "take out" people for £1,000. I always presumed he didn't just mean out for day trips but what a ridiculous thing to put into a conversation?

As they say, there's nowt so peculiar as folks!


Edited by Percy of Peckham (20 Feb 2015 2.03pm)

 


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View Oz Eagle 2's Profile Oz Eagle 2 Flag 19 Feb 15 8.10pm Send a Private Message to Oz Eagle 2 Add Oz Eagle 2 as a friend

When he comes out of his house one morning, smack him in the face with a hammer.

 


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View joe_cpfc's Profile joe_cpfc Flag Basingstoke 19 Feb 15 8.22pm Send a Private Message to joe_cpfc Add joe_cpfc as a friend

Quote Oz Eagle at 19 Feb 2015 8.10pm

When he comes out of his house one morning, smack him in the face with a hammer.

 

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View dannyb1's Profile dannyb1 Flag Chichester 19 Feb 15 8.39pm Send a Private Message to dannyb1 Add dannyb1 as a friend

I'm sure a few of the elite members on here could give you advice on disposing of a body and covering your tracks.

 

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View Pawson Palace's Profile Pawson Palace Flag Croydon 19 Feb 15 8.55pm Send a Private Message to Pawson Palace Add Pawson Palace as a friend

I'm 6'5 and weight best part of 19 stone and I train in the gym 6 days a week to lift heavy ass weight.

How about a beer afterwards??

 


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View Southampton_Eagle's Profile Southampton_Eagle Flag At the after party 19 Feb 15 9.04pm Send a Private Message to Southampton_Eagle Add Southampton_Eagle as a friend

Quote Pawson Palace at 19 Feb 2015 8.55pm

I'm 6'5 and weight best part of 19 stone and I train in the gym 6 days a week to lift heavy ass weight.

How about a beer afterwards??


He wants help with his neighbour, not a date.

 

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View Southampton_Eagle's Profile Southampton_Eagle Flag At the after party 19 Feb 15 9.05pm Send a Private Message to Southampton_Eagle Add Southampton_Eagle as a friend

Quote Oz Eagle at 19 Feb 2015 8.10pm

When he comes out of his house one morning, smack him in the face with a hammer.


I'm also a fan of the softly softly approach.

 

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