If I've told you once I've told you a thousand times. I misread the signals.

When I was a young girl my Mother said to me.. You listen here kid you're CPFC

Reasonable idea, but its going to be a f**ker if you work in a bar or club, with someone called Angela...

Also it doesn't really consider the fact that a significant number of predatory offenders tend to work in bars, clubs etc as its a good way of spotting and insinuating yourself with a victim.

Temporary, transient, shift based work, which don't have CRB checks and a high turn over of staff that deal with a high social contact role tend to suit predatory sex offenders.

Its like with Child Sex offenders and social services.

"One Nation Under God, has turned into One Nation Under the Influence of One Drug"
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I've normally just pulled the sick note.

Fair enough if you genuinely feel threatened but why the fcuk would you get the bar staff to do your dirty-work because you don't fancy your date which is going to be the far more common scenario?