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View steph_eagle's Profile steph_eagle Flag Thornton Heath 11 Dec 17 3.31pm Send a Private Message to steph_eagle Add steph_eagle as a friend

Originally posted by Misseagle

These kids will be going to secondary school in a few months, if they can't hold their wee what hope have they got?

One of the mums was angry because her daughter was busting in the car on the way home after I had made her wait all afternoon.

Why didn't she go after school if she was that desperate?

Nice to see teachers are so caring now days No wonder so many kids turn into little s***s when teachers have that attitude.

 

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View Misseagle's Profile Misseagle Flag London 11 Dec 17 3.41pm Send a Private Message to Misseagle Add Misseagle as a friend

Originally posted by Superfly

Next time, turn on a tap and start singing drip drip drop little april showers

Ooh cruel.

She asked 5 minutes after lunch. There is no excuse for that, 10 and 11 year old's should know to use the toilet at break and lunch.

 

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View the_mcanuff_stuff's Profile the_mcanuff_stuff Flag Caterham 11 Dec 17 3.48pm Send a Private Message to the_mcanuff_stuff Add the_mcanuff_stuff as a friend

Hmm, I've got one child in reception and one in year 2.

I would say, from Junior school (year 3) they need to know to hold it, or go in their break. Maybe a talking to, but allowance, for e.g. the first term of year 3 and a straight refusal after that.

I think you should certainly expect year 6 to be able able to handle this. You just need to make it clear that there are no toilet breaks during lessons and they will learn to go beforehand.

Some exceptions, e.g. a medical condition, but if the child is e.g. temporarily ill, they shouldn't be in school.

I would find this very harsh for my 4 year old in reception year, of course.

Year 3 kids are not babies and are well capable of learning this.

Secondary school=clear "no" from me, except of course for older girls suddenly caught out by their unwelcome monthly visitor. But in those cases, teachers should keep an eye out for the girls for whom this seems to be a weekly, not monthly occurrence!

 

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nickgusset Flag Shizzlehurst 11 Dec 17 3.49pm

Originally posted by steph_eagle

Nice to see teachers are so caring now days No wonder so many kids turn into little s***s when teachers have that attitude.

I reckon after 2 days in the classroom you'd have the same outlook as the teachers on here about toilet breaks.

You allow one kid, then others put their hands up and of course you have to let them go out of fairness. Soon what you'd planned to teach goes out of the window.
Needing a wee is just one weapon in a child's arsenal of excuses to get out of the classroom.
Mark my words, 2 days.

 

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View the_mcanuff_stuff's Profile the_mcanuff_stuff Flag Caterham 11 Dec 17 3.53pm Send a Private Message to the_mcanuff_stuff Add the_mcanuff_stuff as a friend

Originally posted by Misseagle

Ooh cruel.

She asked 5 minutes after lunch. There is no excuse for that, 10 and 11 year old's should know to use the toilet at break and lunch.

100% with you on this. Like I said there is no reason 7-8 year olds (year 3s) can't either. They can hold their bladders for hours (even my 4 year old, actually). It's just a matter of training and teaching them to go before class. No way your average 8 year old who goes to the toilet right before class needs to go again until a couple of hours later.

 

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View steph_eagle's Profile steph_eagle Flag Thornton Heath 11 Dec 17 3.55pm Send a Private Message to steph_eagle Add steph_eagle as a friend

Originally posted by nickgusset

I reckon after 2 days in the classroom you'd have the same outlook as the teachers on here about toilet breaks.

You allow one kid, then others put their hands up and of course you have to let them go out of fairness. Soon what you'd planned to teach goes out of the window.
Needing a wee is just one weapon in a child's arsenal of excuses to get out of the classroom.
Mark my words, 2 days.

Maybe there's a reason some children don't like using the toilets during breaks. I never used the toilets in breaks at school as was a quiet girl and there were always older girls in there which scared me. Obviously that isn't the case in all situations but that's why I can't see problems with it. Even now I hate using toilets when others are in there.

 

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View iheartcpfc's Profile iheartcpfc Flag SE25 11 Dec 17 3.56pm Send a Private Message to iheartcpfc Add iheartcpfc as a friend

I would tell them to go anyway. Not having my kid piss themselves because of some busy t***'s rule.

 

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View the_mcanuff_stuff's Profile the_mcanuff_stuff Flag Caterham 11 Dec 17 4.04pm Send a Private Message to the_mcanuff_stuff Add the_mcanuff_stuff as a friend

Originally posted by iheartcpfc

I would tell them to go anyway. Not having my kid piss themselves because of some busy t***'s rule.

OK, well then maybe exclude them from the rest of the lesson and have them catch up on the work, to avoid disrupting their classmate's education? Maybe supervised e.g. in a dining hall.

It must be impossible to teach a class of 30, when there's kids wondering in and out throughout the lesson. And you can't exactly hold up the lesson waiting for each pupil/student to return.

Edited by the_mcanuff_stuff (11 Dec 2017 4.05pm)

 

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View the_mcanuff_stuff's Profile the_mcanuff_stuff Flag Caterham 11 Dec 17 4.05pm Send a Private Message to the_mcanuff_stuff Add the_mcanuff_stuff as a friend

ooops, cocked up the edit

Edited by the_mcanuff_stuff (11 Dec 2017 4.06pm)

 

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View Misseagle's Profile Misseagle Flag London 11 Dec 17 4.06pm Send a Private Message to Misseagle Add Misseagle as a friend

Originally posted by iheartcpfc

I would tell them to go anyway. Not having my kid piss themselves because of some busy t***'s rule.

A child who left after I said no would be sent to the Headmistress.
You are the sort of parent who thinks children can do whatever they like, I bet you would be the first to blame a teacher for your child not meeting targets?

A child cannot learn if they are in the toilet.

 

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View the_mcanuff_stuff's Profile the_mcanuff_stuff Flag Caterham 11 Dec 17 4.08pm Send a Private Message to the_mcanuff_stuff Add the_mcanuff_stuff as a friend

Originally posted by Misseagle

A child who left after I said no would be sent to the Headmistress.
You are the sort of parent who thinks children can do whatever they like, I bet you would be the first to blame a teacher for your child not meeting targets?

A child cannot learn if they are in the toilet.

And not to mention the unfairness in disrupting the other children's learning.

I would 100% side with my kids teacher in this case.

 

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