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Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I think that in the short term, yes we'd see high usage but not too significantly - given that illicit drugs are remarkably easy to get a hold of (even easier now than when I was a teen or in my 20s). To a degree that astonishes me.

I don't think we necessarily have to legitimise 'taking drugs' by making them legally available, anymore than we legitimise stupid drinking by making alcohol available.

Advertising should be restricted (possibly to the point of being outlawed), and of course we shouldn't be 'promoting them' to children.

The problem of weak willed and misled people probably has plateaued already, as arguably most peoples first experience is via a friend.

There is definitely a moral element - I don't really think making crack and heroin available is necessarily a positive for society, I think the individual health impact, on those who choose to partake, are outweighed by the cost born by those who don't (especially in poor areas).

Problem is that like booze in the 1920s, the illicit drug market has created a far bigger problem for society than drug addiction. Especially for people who don't have an interest - as they're the people tending to be the ones being robbed or otherwise f**ked over to finance peoples habits.

And that's an issue. A junky, with a heavy habit is spending around 100 a day on heroin, but to finance that is committing 300 plus in crime. On prescription the same heroin habit would generously cost about a fiver a day.

And yes, they could build up a bigger habit, but not by much more without dying (tolerance has a limit). Sure you could push yourself to a double habit, but much more than that would be fatal for the hardest smack head.


Illicit drugs are very easy to get hold of these days, they were easy enough to get hold of 20 years ago but with everyone having a mobile phone it's a matter of sending a few texts rather than hoping to bump in to someone on the street, knocking a dealer's door or hoping to catch them in when calling their landline.

 

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View Hrolf The Ganger's Profile Hrolf The Ganger Flag 27 Nov 17 3.57pm Send a Private Message to Hrolf The Ganger Add Hrolf The Ganger as a friend

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

The sooner society rids itself of repressive attitudes towards sex the better.

So many people have weird ideas about the most natural act that they were all designed for. Centuries of nonsense from religion and misplaced value judgements over it have caused untold damage.

Hmmm. I'm not sure prostitution falls int that category.

Encouraging people to offer their bodies up for money seems a wrong step. I see prostitution as extremely degrading and self harming. Then there is the whole exploitation element which will be hard to lose.

Would we like our daughters to do it for a living?

There will always be prostitution but as a society, I think we can do better than embrace it in its current form. If one needs or wants to pay for sex then it is because one is a bit of a sad case. Surely people can aspire to something better.

 

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Originally posted by Southampton_Eagle

In regards to your first sentence, I believe I read a while ago that decriminalising all drugs in Portugal led to less usage. I'm probably wrong though.

It would be counterintuitive certainly.

'here is something you want legally and at less cost'....leading to less use?

Edited by Stirlingsays (27 Nov 2017 4.19pm)

 


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Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I think that in the short term, yes we'd see high usage but not too significantly - given that illicit drugs are remarkably easy to get a hold of (even easier now than when I was a teen or in my 20s). To a degree that astonishes me.

I don't think we necessarily have to legitimise 'taking drugs' by making them legally available, anymore than we legitimise stupid drinking by making alcohol available.

Advertising should be restricted (possibly to the point of being outlawed), and of course we shouldn't be 'promoting them' to children.

The problem of weak willed and misled people probably has plateaued already, as arguably most peoples first experience is via a friend.

There is definitely a moral element - I don't really think making crack and heroin available is necessarily a positive for society, I think the individual health impact, on those who choose to partake, are outweighed by the cost born by those who don't (especially in poor areas).

Problem is that like booze in the 1920s, the illicit drug market has created a far bigger problem for society than drug addiction. Especially for people who don't have an interest - as they're the people tending to be the ones being robbed or otherwise f**ked over to finance peoples habits.

And that's an issue. A junky, with a heavy habit is spending around 100 a day on heroin, but to finance that is committing 300 plus in crime. On prescription the same heroin habit would generously cost about a fiver a day.

And yes, they could build up a bigger habit, but not by much more without dying (tolerance has a limit). Sure you could push yourself to a double habit, but much more than that would be fatal for the hardest smack head.

I can see a form of legalisation coming. You certainly make good points about it. I do find myself conflicted over the issue.

There probably is a way of tacking issues using your points.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 27 Nov 17 4.12pm

Originally posted by Southampton_Eagle


Illicit drugs are very easy to get hold of these days, they were easy enough to get hold of 20 years ago but with everyone having a mobile phone it's a matter of sending a few texts rather than hoping to bump in to someone on the street, knocking a dealer's door or hoping to catch them in when calling their landline.

Easier than that. My wife suffers from a degenerative spinal injury, and the options are opiates on prescription or weed. Its certainly a lot easier than when I was a kid. You phone a local number, and it connects you to someone, who then sends someone round with your order. It never seems to ring engaged and according to a friend who's a bit shady, they've got a switchboard set up that directs to different numbers if all the lines are in use...

 


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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger

Hmmm. I'm not sure prostitution falls int that category.

Encouraging people to offer their bodies up for money seems a wrong step. I see prostitution as extremely degrading and self harming. Then there is the whole exploitation element which will be hard to lose.

Would we like our daughters to do it for a living?

There will always be prostitution but as a society, I think we can do better than embrace it in its current form. If one needs or wants to pay for sex then it is because one is a bit of a sad case. Surely people can aspire to something better.

Why do you regard sex within as coming with a 'value' system? Isn't that connected to the baggage religion has given to us about it?

What we want for our daughters might not be what our daughters want or choose for themselves. It might be something they choose for a couple of years or whatever....it's about choice.....one of the rare aspects of feminism that most of us agreed with.

I do share some of your sympathies about encouraging people on more productive aspects of personality but human nature is human nature and surely we shouldn't be punishing and criminalising non violent people who are paying for a service.....both the workers and their clients should be safe.

I guess I'm saying that the state shouldn't get between consensual affairs between individuals if no one is being harmed.

 


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Regarding Prostitution. Ireland is now a laughing stock. Back to conservative nanny state i always knew it was. No legal abortion, no legal prostitution, not even dirty magazines for sale on the top shelf of the newsagents.


with drugs, hookers and most other things....a permissive society will suffer less criminality, less anti social behaviour and keep the cops free to chase robbers.

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 27 Nov 17 4.34pm

Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger

Hmmm. I'm not sure prostitution falls int that category.

Encouraging people to offer their bodies up for money seems a wrong step. I see prostitution as extremely degrading and self harming. Then there is the whole exploitation element which will be hard to lose.

Would we like our daughters to do it for a living?

There will always be prostitution but as a society, I think we can do better than embrace it in its current form. If one needs or wants to pay for sex then it is because one is a bit of a sad case. Surely people can aspire to something better.

Indeed, I think that legalisation of prostitution really should serve more as a means of establishing an method of outreach by which we as a society, utilise that industry as a means of trying to get people out of prostitution (and as a means of protecting sex workers).

The end goal of legalised prostitution should be serving as a basis for getting those in the trade out, and providing security whilst they are. It should focus on providing skills training, rehabilitation for drug users, social outreach and care programs.

There are those in the higher end of the business, call girls and escorts, who are attracted by the money and are in the business voluntarily, but most aren't (and those who are usually don't need the same kind of protection anyhow).

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 27 Nov 17 4.47pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

It would be counterintuitive certainly.

'here is something you want legally and at less cost'....leading to less use?

Edited by Stirlingsays (27 Nov 2017 4.19pm)

Oddly, it might well be true. After all, the reason why people don't do drugs isn't because they're illegal, or hard to come by, but they're not interested or don't like them.

Its a bit like drinking. Some people are problem drinkers, most people aren't and some people don't drink. Making booze cheaper or more available doesn't necessitate that people who aren't interested in drinking will start drinking.

Short term, I think you'd see more use, as people who are curious might try them, but the reason why people don't take LSD, for example, tends to be that they don't like LSD or have grown 'out of it'. Certainly, as you get older, drugs have less appeal (as who has eight to twelve hours then can spend watching 'the curtains'. Similarly, the appeal of going out dancing till 6am drops off in your 30s.

I don't think weed, heroin, cocaine and crack cocaine fall into this category. These don't really have that issue - Weed, I don't think is a problem. Coke, crack and heroin, I think have a more sinister appeal, crack and heroin especially, in that they 'fill that void' in existence (or blot it out) and that's why they appeal (Heroin especially). Everyone I know who went down the smack path, was f**ked up in some way and had some serious issues under the surface that f**ked with their life.

I think generally that's true with drug use for most heavy drug users, its about the individual's issues, rather than the drug. The problem of crack and heroin is that they really compound those issues by mixing physical addiction into an already f**ked up mix (less so with cocaine - but it can very easily become a problem drug).

 


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jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 27 Nov 17 4.49pm

Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Why do you regard sex within as coming with a 'value' system? Isn't that connected to the baggage religion has given to us about it?

What we want for our daughters might not be what our daughters want or choose for themselves. It might be something they choose for a couple of years or whatever....it's about choice.....one of the rare aspects of feminism that most of us agreed with.

I do share some of your sympathies about encouraging people on more productive aspects of personality but human nature is human nature and surely we shouldn't be punishing and criminalising non violent people who are paying for a service.....both the workers and their clients should be safe.

I guess I'm saying that the state shouldn't get between consensual affairs between individuals if no one is being harmed.

If I had kids, I wouldn't want them becoming prostitutes or drug addicts. However, if they did, I'd also want them to be as safe as possible.

 


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Originally posted by Stirlingsays

Why do you regard sex within as coming with a 'value' system? Isn't that connected to the baggage religion has given to us about it?

What we want for our daughters might not be what our daughters want or choose for themselves. It might be something they choose for a couple of years or whatever....it's about choice.....one of the rare aspects of feminism that most of us agreed with.

I do share some of your sympathies about encouraging people on more productive aspects of personality but human nature is human nature and surely we shouldn't be punishing and criminalising non violent people who are paying for a service.....both the workers and their clients should be safe.

I guess I'm saying that the state shouldn't get between consensual affairs between individuals if no one is being harmed.

I'm not sure it is about value in terms of how you are viewed but self value. Sex can be seen as a physical act only but does have more significance in terms of the psychological effect it produces. Having sex with total strangers for money must impact on emotions reserved for something more meaningful also have an impact on self esteem and self worth. For me that is harmful.

I' not sure that choosing that way of life necessarily makes it a 'free' choice because it is driven by the financial demands of need or greed and can also be driven by a similar psychology to self harming, where a lack of self worth already exists.

Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (27 Nov 2017 5.40pm)

 

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Originally posted by jamiemartin721

I think that in the short term, yes we'd see high usage but not too significantly - given that illicit drugs are remarkably easy to get a hold of (even easier now than when I was a teen or in my 20s). To a degree that astonishes me.

I don't think we necessarily have to legitimise 'taking drugs' by making them legally available, anymore than we legitimise stupid drinking by making alcohol available.

Advertising should be restricted (possibly to the point of being outlawed), and of course we shouldn't be 'promoting them' to children.

The problem of weak willed and misled people probably has plateaued already, as arguably most peoples first experience is via a friend.

There is definitely a moral element - I don't really think making crack and heroin available is necessarily a positive for society, I think the individual health impact, on those who choose to partake, are outweighed by the cost born by those who don't (especially in poor areas).

Problem is that like booze in the 1920s, the illicit drug market has created a far bigger problem for society than drug addiction. Especially for people who don't have an interest - as they're the people tending to be the ones being robbed or otherwise f**ked over to finance peoples habits.

And that's an issue. A junky, with a heavy habit is spending around 100 a day on heroin, but to finance that is committing 300 plus in crime. On prescription the same heroin habit would generously cost about a fiver a day.

And yes, they could build up a bigger habit, but not by much more without dying (tolerance has a limit). Sure you could push yourself to a double habit, but much more than that would be fatal for the hardest smack head.

Agree. I despair at the youth and their healthy living habits. They don't pop, snort or puff; they run. Those who currently consume, will continue to do so albeit fromm legitimate sources.

 

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