I think people are being told how they should feel far too much these days in all aspects of life. Many people go to football to let off some steam and get away from all that.
My answer to your post is a respectful: Thats how you feel? Fair enough but dont tell me how to feel or how to behave. You are not the Palace police and I still wouldn't listen to you if you were.
I HATE Brighton and I enjoy doing so. You admire them if you want. Personally I leave that to the Seaweed fans.
Jeez!

I hate terrorists who would kill my kids.

Not much else truly pushes my hate button.

If you want to live in a world full of kindness, respect and love, try to show these qualities.

Thanks. I feel so.

If you want to live in a world full of kindness, respect and love, try to show these qualities.

Words mean different things in different contexts - in the context of a football rivalry, obviously 'hate' doesn't mean the same thing as it usually would. Given the near-eradication of violence from the modern game, I don't think we need to worry too much about whether people use slightly over-the-top terms when discussing football rivalries.

I thought this might be useful:-

hateDictionary result for hate

verb
1.
feel intense dislike for.
"the boys hate each other"
synonyms: loathe, detest, dislike greatly, abhor, abominate, despise, execrate, feel aversion towards, feel revulsion towards, feel hostile towards, be repelled by, be revolted by, regard with disgust, not be able to bear/stand, be unable to stomach, find intolerable, shudder at, recoil from, shrink from; informalhate someone's guts; raredisrelish
"the boys hate each other"
noun
1.
intense dislike.
"feelings of hate and revenge"
synonyms: loathing, hatred, detestation, dislike, distaste, abhorrence, abomination, execration, resentment, aversion, hostility, ill will, ill feeling, bad feeling; enmity, animosity, antagonism, antipathy, bitterness, animus, revulsion, disgust, contempt, repugnance, odium, rancour; raredisrelish
"feelings of hate and revenge"

So it turns out that I do hate Brighton FC and all its fans. And the stadium. And the town. And clackers. And that bloody song.

The ground was built on Tony Bloom’s fortune and hasn’t been paid back, and so was their promotion to the premier league. They spent loads for a good few years before reigning it in the season they got promoted. We got here on about £600k. Actually it was nothing or a net profit on transfers seeing as we made money on Ambrose, Scannell and Clyne, then spent nowhere near those millions in profit because there were annual losses to cover. Their argument that we somehow cheated due to the administration can be countered with firstly we didn’t, plus all the players we bought to get us into that mess were long gone.

Edited by Rudi Hedman (07 Mar 2019 7.25pm)

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