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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Has it wrecked your life or has it made you stronger? I have always found that adversity has made me stronger. the point of your question is?
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Originally posted by Belmont
the point of your question is? My point is that what people say to you won't kill you but it will give you a much thicker skin. I'm glad my skin has been thickened. I wouldn't want it any other way. That's not to say that I approve of abusing people, but since we don't live in an ideal world, I'm compensated by being better able to handle other people's f***wittery.
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Originally posted by madcap_v2
We, our, they... I was born in this country mate, members of my family were brought over here to prop up the healthcare system, and to fight for this country in the war, I've paid tax for as long as I've been able to, it's as much mine as it is yours. What it is that "they" used to say that "they" need to change, to do the same? I have never questioned your right to be here nor do I have any idea who you are or where you are originally from. All I’m saying is that indigenous Brits have had to adapt over the last 50 years to ensure the sensibilities of immigrants from many different countries were not ridden over roughshod. It has been a long and difficult period of our development as a country, however we are now probably the most diverse place in the world and yet there are still those who who want to belittle old whitey for being stuck in the past racists. I do not approve of racism despite what you probably think about me however I believe in respect between people sharing this soil we live on and I firmly believe respect is not a one way street. I’ll start showing more respect for all in this country when they stop stabbing and shooting each other. This never used to happen when I was a child.
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
My point is that what people say to you won't kill you but it will give you a much thicker skin. I'm glad my skin has been thickened. I wouldn't want it any other way. That's not to say that I approve of abusing people, but since we don't live in an ideal world, I'm compensated by being better able to handle other people's f***wittery. I don't cry into my pillow at night if that helps
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Originally posted by Eaglecoops
I have never questioned your right to be here nor do I have any idea who you are or where you are originally from. All I’m saying is that indigenous Brits have had to adapt over the last 50 years to ensure the sensibilities of immigrants from many different countries were not ridden over roughshod. It has been a long and difficult period of our development as a country, however we are now probably the most diverse place in the world and yet there are still those who who want to belittle old whitey for being stuck in the past racists. I do not approve of racism despite what you probably think about me however I believe in respect between people sharing this soil we live on and I firmly believe respect is not a one way street. I’ll start showing more respect for all in this country when they stop stabbing and shooting each other. This never used to happen when I was a child. So who don't you respect the actual people who are carrying out these violent acts, surely applies to all criminality.
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Originally posted by Belmont
So who don't you respect the actual people who are carrying out these violent acts, surely applies to all criminality. I don’t approve of any criminality. Not sure of your point. Is it not true that violent crime has increased as the country has become more diverse? Happy to be told I am wrong.
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Originally posted by Belmont
I don't cry into my pillow at night if that helps So ultimately, you have learned to handle abuse just like many of us have. Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (10 Dec 2020 6.39pm)
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
My point is that what people say to you won't kill you but it will give you a much thicker skin. I'm glad my skin has been thickened. I wouldn't want it any other way. That's not to say that I approve of abusing people, but since we don't live in an ideal world, I'm compensated by being better able to handle other people's f***wittery. Wow. You had me fooled.
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
Wow. You had me fooled. Thought you would recognise that. Edited by Spiderman (10 Dec 2020 6.34pm) Edited by Spiderman (10 Dec 2020 6.35pm) Edited by Spiderman (10 Dec 2020 6.36pm)
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Originally posted by Wisbech Eagle
Wow. You had me fooled. Apparently, fooling you isn't that hard. If you can find examples of my abuse please provide them, and until you do, refrain from your insinuations.
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
So ultimately, you have learned to handle abuse just like many of us have. Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (10 Dec 2020 6.39pm) Nope hrolf, unless you are of an ethnic make up you cannot possibly be offended by abuse unless its racist abuse. Load of bollox. People are people and we all have feelings.
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Originally posted by glazedallover
had to change it for the film, things are different these days, but changing history???
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Originally posted by the silurian
had to change it for the film, things are different these days, but changing history??? Haven’t seen the film for some time but have they recently changed the name? Sure that was the name in the original
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Originally posted by cryrst
Nope hrolf, unless you are of an ethnic make up you cannot possibly be offended by abuse unless its racist abuse. Load of bollox. People are people and we all have feelings. Yeah, this is an issue I have with the racial abuse thing. When I hear people losing it over racial abuse, I just wonder if they have any backbone. I'm sure many people have experienced abuse of all sorts and you just have to get on with it. I don't see too many fat or bald people forming militant groups or taking a knee about it and I don't believe that there is a special emotion exclusively reserved for racial abuse. Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (10 Dec 2020 8.56pm)
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Yeah, this is an issue I have with the racial abuse thing. When I hear people losing it over racial abuse, I just wonder if they have any backbone. I'm sure many people have experienced abuse of all sorts and you just have to get on with it. I don't see too many fat or bald people forming militant groups or taking a knee about it and I don't believe that there is a special emotion exclusively reserved for racial abuse. Edited by Hrolf The Ganger (10 Dec 2020 8.56pm) Wait for the you dont know what slavery did line.
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Originally posted by Spiderman
Haven’t seen the film for some time but have they recently changed the name? Sure that was the name in the original It's edited out of the film but also the memorial has been changed.
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Originally posted by madcap_v2
Re-read what I said. And yes, I have had the barber example happen to me. Took zero offence to it either. As far as I see It, It only becomes racist once someone is offended by it, regardless of The intent in which it was said. Sure, if it was intended to be racist, then it's more likely for it to be offensive to someone. but that does not mean that just because no racist intent was used that someone will not take offence, and deem it racist. If someone else went to your barber shop and got offended by being asked to try another barbers, would it be racist then?
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Originally posted by Spiderman
Haven’t seen the film for some time but have they recently changed the name? Sure that was the name in the original in the remake its changed, different times! My mother took a reel of cotton to the shop to try and match the colour, the shop assistant was deeply offended(she said) as the colour on the spool was n****r brown! The nspool is over 40 years old!
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