Was a compliment. Whilst we often don’t agree,I do respect you.

Dissing a poster because they live in Midhurst, meaning their opinion is somehow not as valid is nonsensical.

Ah

Midhurst with its less than 0.4% black population is not an area I expect people to have many black friends. As such I also don’t think it would be easy to walk a mile in their shoes.

I grew up on Stockwell Park estate in Brixton that was less than ten percent white.

I know exactly what it was like. We use to get sh1t pushed through our letterbox.

What's it like living in a nice part of Croydon?

Edited by Stirlingsays (08 Jun 2021 9.10am)

Diverse

Like yourself but filtered.

You'll move, because all that good stuff is coming for you as well. You'll get to choose your shoes as you leave....I wonder how Prague is this summer.

Edited by Stirlingsays (08 Jun 2021 9.15am)

I hear you, but we'll see won't we....it'll be the rising crime rate, outward pressure will even reach your goodself.

I have actually.

Always could do with more space....I've been lucky enough to gain access to a large vegetable patch a couple of miles away, some of us are going to grow food on there.

Has to be cleared though, quite a lot of work involved.

Our players are role models. And, beyond the confines of the pitch, we must recognise the impact they can have on society. We must give them the confidence to stand up for their teammates and the things that matter to them as people.

I have never believed that we should just stick to football.

I know my voice carries weight, not because of who I am but because of the position that I hold. At home, I’m below the kids and the dogs in the pecking order but publicly I am the England men’s football team manager. I have a responsibility to the wider community to use my voice, and so do the players.

It’s their duty to continue to interact with the public on matters such as equality, inclusivity and racial injustice, while using the power of their voices to help put debates on the table, raise awareness and educate.

Social media has been a key resource in giving our players a platform and has been a positive tool in so many ways. In fact, I feel like this generation of England players is closer to the supporters than they have been for decades. Despite the polarisation we see in society, these lads are on the same wavelength as you on many issues.

That said, there are times when my parental instincts kick in. I can’t help it. After all, I’m old enough to be a father to most of my players!

I see players scrolling on their phones straight after the final whistle and I think … Hmmm, is that a particularly good idea?

Reading abusive comments on Twitter or Instagram is never going to help performance.

There are genuine risks for our players online and I will always want to protect them, but I would never put rules on how or when they use their accounts while on England duty. I trust them and know they are mature enough to make their own decisions, to do what’s right for their mental health and to keep being a force for good as we strive for a better society.

The last 18 months have put added pressure on everyone, I know. Venting that might have taken place while walking out of the stadium, or in the pub has been transferred online. I get that. However, there are things I will never understand.

Why would you tag someone in on a conversation that is abusive?

Why would you choose to insult somebody for something as ridiculous as the colour of their skin?

Why?

Unfortunately for those people that engage in that kind of behaviour, I have some bad news. You’re on the losing side. It’s clear to me that we are heading for a much more tolerant and understanding society, and I know our lads will be a big part of that.

It might not feel like it at times, but it’s true. The awareness around inequality and the discussions on race have gone to a different level in the last 12 months alone.

I am confident that young kids of today will grow up baffled by old attitudes and ways of thinking.

For many of that younger generation, your notion of Englishness is quite different from my own. I understand that, too.

I understand that on this island, we have a desire to protect our values and traditions — as we should — but that shouldn’t come at the expense of introspection and progress.

Cool, kitchen gardens are the future according to my daughter. And try not to turn the soil too much, it reduces the ability to hold water and also destroys the underground culture by allowing the elements to get at it.

Maybe you'd like to join us here:

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An hour and a half from you.