Diagnosed with Depression. Help?
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 Eunectes  Aberystwyth 03 Apr 15 1.18pm |
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Another lifelong sufferer here (both depression and CPFC!). Over the years I've spent times on a wide variety of SSRIs and tried many forms of therapy. Personally (and experience differs for everyone), I didn't find counselling or CBT particularly helpful, but did invest heavily in some hypnotherapy many years ago, which certainly helped. I also found trying some positive thought exercises a self-defence instructor called Geoff Thompson described as "challenging the inner opponent"; the theory being that human brains are somewhat predisposed to think negative thoughts, and learning to challenge them can be helpful in remaining positive and productive. Other than that, I have basically learned to be accepting that for some periods of time I will be depressed and struggle, It's just part of being me! The trick is to remind yourself that it will pass eventually, and learn to "reality check" your thoughts and opinions. That said, medication still has it's uses from time to time; I'm currently back on the citalopram, after many years without medication. Largely because, in a position of severe stress and pressure, it was quite clear everything was on it's way to falling to pieces if I didn't go for help. Sometimes these things are a practical neccesity (although I try not to tinker with my brain chemistry for prolonged periods if I can avoid it). Whatever course of action you choose, at least you're self-aware enough to understand there is an issue that needs dealing with, and are looking for help. Good luck!
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blind eagle  Covington.Tennessee 03 Apr 15 3.41pm |
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I suffered severe depression for years after being fired . The only way I survived was to dedicate myself to a specific cause. I chose my family and I went out of my way to give them everything I had to give. However you could choose a relationship,somebody who is sick.kids in need .There are lots and lots of good causes and ,given time,you will certainly recover because I did.
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Seth  On a pale blue dot 03 Apr 15 3.48pm |
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Some people swear by Mindfulness as a way of treating depression. Here's a good book to start if anyone's interested: [Link]
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cpfccolin  Dorset 03 Apr 15 6.51pm |
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If everyone suffered with depression because their wife left them or they lost tier job, this would be a very sorry state of a country. Get over it grow a pair, we all have lost a job or a girlfriend or have a family member die its part of life. I am a self employed plumber/Multi-trader with a family I don't always have work every day or week, sometimes go a couple of months without work. I don't take pity on myself and start crying like a baby and say I feel depressed I have no work, quick let me run to the doctor and take a pill. I get on with life
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| Superfly The sun always shines in Catford 06 Apr 15 11.14am |
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Quote cpfccolin at 03 Apr 2015 6.51pm
If everyone suffered with depression because their wife left them or they lost tier job, this would be a very sorry state of a country. Get over it grow a pair, we all have lost a job or a girlfriend or have a family member die its part of life. I am a self employed plumber/Multi-trader with a family I don't always have work every day or week, sometimes go a couple of months without work. I don't take pity on myself and start crying like a baby and say I feel depressed I have no work, quick let me run to the doctor and take a pill. I get on with life
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| kingdowieonthewall Sussex, ex-Cronx. 06 Apr 15 6.56pm |
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Quote Superfly at 06 Apr 2015 11.14am
Quote cpfccolin at 03 Apr 2015 6.51pm
If everyone suffered with depression because their wife left them or they lost tier job, this would be a very sorry state of a country. Get over it grow a pair, we all have lost a job or a girlfriend or have a family member die its part of life. I am a self employed plumber/Multi-trader with a family I don't always have work every day or week, sometimes go a couple of months without work. I don't take pity on myself and start crying like a baby and say I feel depressed I have no work, quick let me run to the doctor and take a pill. I get on with life
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| Lucas Oliver Miles away 06 Apr 15 7.08pm |
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Never had depression and don't really get the moping malarkey. However the amount of people who seem to have a lot going for them and still get it is huge. I think it's one of those where you don't really get what it's all about until you've had it. If I was to top myself I'd scale the Arthur and do a running long jump/swallow dive on to the pitch.
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| suicideatselhurst crawley 06 Apr 15 8.24pm |
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Quote Lucas Oliver at 06 Apr 2015 7.08pm
Never had depression and don't really get the moping malarkey. However the amount of people who seem to have a lot going for them and still get it is huge. I think it's one of those where you don't really get what it's all about until you've had it. If I was to top myself I'd scale the Arthur and do a running long jump/swallow dive on to the pitch.
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| suicideatselhurst crawley 06 Apr 15 8.24pm |
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Quote cpfccolin at 03 Apr 2015 6.51pm
If everyone suffered with depression because their wife left them or they lost tier job, this would be a very sorry state of a country. Get over it grow a pair, we all have lost a job or a girlfriend or have a family member die its part of life. I am a self employed plumber/Multi-trader with a family I don't always have work every day or week, sometimes go a couple of months without work. I don't take pity on myself and start crying like a baby and say I feel depressed I have no work, quick let me run to the doctor and take a pill. I get on with life
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 07 Apr 15 10.28am |
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Quote cpfccolin at 03 Apr 2015 6.51pm
If everyone suffered with depression because their wife left them or they lost tier job, this would be a very sorry state of a country. Get over it grow a pair, we all have lost a job or a girlfriend or have a family member die its part of life. I am a self employed plumber/Multi-trader with a family I don't always have work every day or week, sometimes go a couple of months without work. I don't take pity on myself and start crying like a baby and say I feel depressed I have no work, quick let me run to the doctor and take a pill. Depression isn't being sad, its the loss of affect. It can be triggered by things like grief or loss etc but effectively its a disorder in the production - either from under production, or higher reuptake at the synaptic gap. This generally has a hereditory basis, and is considered present as a predisposition. People prone to depression simply biologically lack a capacity to recover in incidents that trigger their disorder, and that without intervention and treatment, the disorder itself simply creates a greater loss of affect (essentially its a feedback loop). As a result, most people within the first few bouts spiral, because they lack the biological basis of recovery or the cognative skills required to address and identify root causes of the spiral. Depression isn't about being sad or unhappy, its about the loss of the capacity for affect entirely. When I'm sad, I'm paradoxically not depressed, and that in itself makes me happy. You know those days when you wake up in the middle of the night, and can't sleep, when you know everything is pointless, meaningless and has no value, that no matter what you do, nothing happens or changes. Thats me on a average day, all of the time. The meds take the edge off, the experience gives me tools to stabalise. My life is pretty good (I'm self employed, earn a good living etc) but that makes no difference.
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 07 Apr 15 10.29am |
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Quote Lucas Oliver at 06 Apr 2015 7.08pm
Never had depression and don't really get the moping malarkey. However the amount of people who seem to have a lot going for them and still get it is huge. I think it's one of those where you don't really get what it's all about until you've had it. If I was to top myself I'd scale the Arthur and do a running long jump/swallow dive on to the pitch. Indeed. In Bold - The Shefti Suicide.
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Kermit8  Hevon 07 Apr 15 1.12pm |
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Quote jamiemartin721 at 07 Apr 2015 10.28am
Quote cpfccolin at 03 Apr 2015 6.51pm
If everyone suffered with depression because their wife left them or they lost tier job, this would be a very sorry state of a country. Get over it grow a pair, we all have lost a job or a girlfriend or have a family member die its part of life. I am a self employed plumber/Multi-trader with a family I don't always have work every day or week, sometimes go a couple of months without work. I don't take pity on myself and start crying like a baby and say I feel depressed I have no work, quick let me run to the doctor and take a pill. Depression isn't being sad, its the loss of affect. It can be triggered by things like grief or loss etc but effectively its a disorder in the production - either from under production, or higher reuptake at the synaptic gap. This generally has a hereditory basis, and is considered present as a predisposition. People prone to depression simply biologically lack a capacity to recover in incidents that trigger their disorder, and that without intervention and treatment, the disorder itself simply creates a greater loss of affect (essentially its a feedback loop). As a result, most people within the first few bouts spiral, because they lack the biological basis of recovery or the cognative skills required to address and identify root causes of the spiral. Depression isn't about being sad or unhappy, its about the loss of the capacity for affect entirely. When I'm sad, I'm paradoxically not depressed, and that in itself makes me happy. You know those days when you wake up in the middle of the night, and can't sleep, when you know everything is pointless, meaningless and has no value, that no matter what you do, nothing happens or changes. Thats me on a average day, all of the time. The meds take the edge off, the experience gives me tools to stabalise. My life is pretty good (I'm self employed, earn a good living etc) but that makes no difference.
The pointlessness of life can obviously be overwhelming but there are things out there which can keep you very busy and can make it go right to the back of the queue in our thoughts. So much so that it becomes pointless to even dwell on it. 'What's that, son?' - 'you want to bankrupt me again in monopoly?'
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