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Originally posted by Eaglecoops
I too watched this video. It makes it clear there is a substantial difference between sex and gender according to the definitions. On this basis why is it that the gender appears to take precedence over the sex part of it when it comes to use of toilets and changing rooms. Whilst it may not bother those who consider themselves to be a woman walking around with meat and two veg hanging out, biological females will in the main feel pretty disgusted especially if children are present. Clearly, segregation by sex makes more sense. Another point is why doesn’t sport simply segregate by sex rather than gender in which case it would stop arguments about blokes winning all their competitions.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
Hmm, ‘best scientific and ethical advice’ doesn’t necessarily benefit the majority, as these decisions are mostly made by those placed under pressure not to be vilified by the affected minority. Nor do these decisions tend to be dealt with utilising common sense. As I said, sex should be the basis of segregation not what someone thinks or identifies as.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
First I would say that no-one is undergoing years of hormone replacement therapy and multiple surgical treatments on a whim. This follows lengthy consultations with psychologists and doctors. I don’t think either of us really understand how much these people feel that they’re just in the wrong body. The last survey I read about said that the overwhelming majority of these people were a lot more comfortable about their place in society following the surgery. So it seems like it works. Someone might feel they should be in a pirate's body and identify as Long John Silver, but I doubt they would cut a leg off, poke an eye out and put a parrot on their shoulder.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
So firstly I would suggest that I neither described a physical change as a ‘whim’ however secondly there are plenty of examples where those who have undergone such catastrophic actions have either ‘transitioned’ back or in some cases even taken their own lives if not just been left wanting to. There’s also a push for this to be done to younger and younger individuals which is barbarically cruel IMO. As for those wishing to undergo HRT or currently undergoing it the first step might be to stop the practice where possible with immediate effect. The other issue here however is that individuals might claim it is their right to do so if available. I don’t know the answer there with only subjective opinion but if so it should be very strictly regulated, not accessible for anyone under the age of 18 but most importantly should not allow a person to be categorised as female or male on the basis of surgery or hormone replacements. They would be their sex just with the body modification and that distinction should be noted everywhere appropriate. The likes of HRT treatment are not a perfect science. Secondly, whilst my instinctive reaction is to vilify and shout down a lot within this spectrum my logical brain tells me there is something probably of value and truth behind it albeit probably for a very small proportion. My primary issue here is the lack of consensus and therefore clarity around the difference between sex and gender, the promulgation of ‘transgenderism’ as though it is of concern to the majority, the ideological drivers behind it and the prioritisation of this over general common sense and welfare for primarily women and children. If, for instance, a male wants to identify as a very feminine male, with body modifications too including those that make him look like a female, I think that’s none of mine or anybody else’s business beyond where matters of sex come into consideration. If he receives extreme backlash, discrimination etc for this then yes interventions and actions may need to be taken to prevent or mitigate that for his safety. If he feels uncomfortable in a ‘Men’s’ toilet or similar, he should have a safe space but not one segregated for the exclusive use of females. Where we all have to pretend that he is a female however I disagree strongly. He is not. He is a male who chooses to act and look like a female, he should be free to live his life, so long as it doesn’t infringe upon the freedom of others, as we all should be. Where there is mass promotion and policy for the butchering and complete disregard of the English language, a corporate approach to flying different flags, holding marches and designating periods of the years to certain groups, litigation for non-adherence to ideology and subjective desires, I think we have to look at society and say this is all nonsense and quite worrying.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
AND up to 60% regret it within 15 years and up to 25% top themselves because of the regret. ( rough figures) Imo these people do need to try to be talked out of it but that is now frowned upon for some strange reason. Bodies are really the sum of your desire but hey who cares; it’s not you !
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Originally posted by cryrst
AND up to 60% regret it within 15 years and up to 25% top themselves because of the regret. ( rough figures) Imo these people do need to try to be talked out of it but that is now frowned upon for some strange reason. Bodies are really the sum of your desire but hey who cares; it’s not you !
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
So you took one article from the Heritage Foundation and think that proves something? They’re a right wing think tank funded by the Koch Foundation and heavily into climate change denial, so clearly have an agenda. If you are a man and think you are a woman, or vice versa, then you probably do have mental health issues.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
Actually I haven’t ever even heard of them or researched their material but thanks for the info. I heard it on the wireless a few yeas ago from some professor and that was before it became vogue to be trans. If the pool of people was too small to garner honest figures; how many should it be then. One person killing themselves over something preventable is too many! Also if you need ongoing psychiatric care even after the surgery you fight so hard for then just maybe you’ve made the wrong decision you think !
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Originally posted by cryrst
AND up to 60% regret it within 15 years and up to 25% top themselves because of the regret. ( rough figures) Imo these people do need to try to be talked out of it but that is now frowned upon for some strange reason. Bodies are really the sum of your desire but hey who cares; it’s not you !
This really is the crux of the matter. 'If' the number is very low or low, it implies that significant regret could also be in 'not' viewing it as at least an option, and so the focus on the suicide risk of that should factor in. To my mind a sane midway point should be sought, where politics isn't central. That would mean individuals should be given room to consider their identity over time, not either automatically identified as something by advocates intent on validating an outcome, or dehumanised and told their feeling are entirely invalid by people who know nothing about their experience. Having gender dysphoria must be a really tought spot. The desire of some to cobble together anything to make trans people look depraved is ludicrous, being that a significant number of them are clearly unable to change how they feel. It's just another issue where the political weight of something leads far away from the nuances of who people are, and sensible treatment of them.
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Originally posted by footythoughts
This really is the crux of the matter. 'If' the number is very low or low, it implies that significant regret could also be in 'not' viewing it as at least an option, and so the focus on the suicide risk of that should factor in. To my mind a sane midway point should be sought, where politics isn't central. That would mean individuals should be given room to consider their identity over time, not either automatically identified as something by advocates intent on validating an outcome, or dehumanised and told their feeling are entirely invalid by people who know nothing about their experience. Having gender dysphoria must be a really tought spot. The desire of some to cobble together anything to make trans people look depraved is ludicrous, being that a significant number of them are clearly unable to change how they feel. It's just another issue where the political weight of something leads far away from the nuances of who people are, and sensible treatment of them. I did forget to add that this was after a period of 15 years or more. Maybe put that filter on and the results could be a little different.
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Originally posted by cryrst
I did forget to add that this was after a period of 15 years or more. Maybe put that filter on and the results could be a little different.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
Maybe there weren't as many people going through the process. Like the number who might regret getting neck tattoos or having three inch earlobes.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
Hi Hrolf, you’re confused, I know it’s not easy when people keep using these terms interchangeably and expect you to keep up with modern usage. Here’s a very short video from Encyclopaedia Britannica that I hope will clarify things to your satisfaction. Give over. You are dancing around the obvious. We all know what a man or woman is, irrespective of terminology. You haven't answered my question. Do you believe that there are more than two sexes? If you think that cutting off your dick and taking a few hormones makes you a woman, then you have been brainwashed by people who are bonkers.
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
So how many is a good sample. 300 from a recent survey wasn’t enough iyo.
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Originally posted by cryrst
So how many is a good sample. 300 from a recent survey wasn’t enough iyo. You want to believe that the one tiny little study that backs up what you already believe is the one we should all believe. Unfortunately for you science doesn’t work like that, others have posted links to bigger studies and, as with so many other things, size matters. Plus, it’s from twenty f***ing years ago, everything has moved on apart from your prejudice!
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
You want to believe that the one tiny little study that backs up what you already believe is the one we should all believe. Unfortunately for you science doesn’t work like that, others have posted links to bigger studies and, as with so many other things, size matters. Plus, it’s from twenty f***ing years ago, everything has moved on apart from your prejudice! Why does it have to be prejudice? Can't it just be lack of interest? Other people's gender might be the core of their own existence but why should it matter to anyone else?
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Originally posted by berlinpalace
You want to believe that the one tiny little study that backs up what you already believe is the one we should all believe. Unfortunately for you science doesn’t work like that, others have posted links to bigger studies and, as with so many other things, size matters. Plus, it’s from twenty f***ing years ago, everything has moved on apart from your prejudice! All I’m saying and referencing is that the suicide rate amongst (physically)transitioned humans is higher than in non transitioned humans if you want it to be PC!!!
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Originally posted by cryrst
All I’m saying and referencing is that the suicide rate amongst (physically)transitioned humans is higher than in non transitioned humans if you want it to be PC!!!
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Originally posted by Nicholas91
Not sure what to make of this in terms of progress but it does seem like yet more backtracking to reach something that must surely constitute common sense which was previously superseded by a desire to align to social and political movements with complete disregard to logic and wider implications. The sports change certainly made sense, as biological men in womens sport provably puts women at distinct disadvantage, no matter if testosterone levels and the like were now reduced. The knock on effect on records, physical safety and the like is clear. The bathroom issue has become near hysterical from all sides, clearly almost all trans women (as with all women, and indeed men) go to the toilet to actually use it. If someone is nuts enough to want to sexually violate others, they can do so without impersonating a woman, so it doesn't in any way reflect on a group as a whole. The other side is that it's fair in a womens space for those present to.. well actually be considered to be women. I'd say the changing room issue is more difficult in that people are more exposed. There are aspects of that to any use of changing rooms though and to my mind places that just have individual cubicles have the right idea. Maybe that should be a law with new facilities goes forward, it would seem to be a sensible idea. A 'careful what you wish for' with this proposed change is that if we base use of these facilities on biological sex, trans men (those who are visually male but are biologically female) are then forced to use womens spaces, and is that the most rational place for them to be? Doesn't that defeat the object (and question the logic) of bringing in such a single sex measures? As with anything newly hyper political, the realities and more nuanced than the lurches.
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