To be honest, I blame men for a lot of what could be considered unfeminine behaviour from women because they essentially aid it.

You meet a lady and she behaves in a way that you consider uncouth then just back straight off. Nobody forces you to go with her and whilst she should be free to choose and behave how she wants, you are also free to cut all contact.

Men need to have higher standards rather than just acting like Dogs who will happily rut with any bitch they can. Show some decorum themselves. Plenty of nice girls out there but you might actually have to make an effort to court them rather than just paying for a night out and expecting some honey at the end of it.

Be a genuine rebel male. Don't get tattoos yourself. Don't drink in s***ty pubs/clubs or stick powder up your noses. Go to Church and meet girls there. Or join a Choir. You might laugh at that but trust me, it's good for your mental health and packed with women, many of them single. Even pay a few quid and join a decent dating site.

Be the kind of bloke you might want any future daughter you might have to marry.

Now, most of the most predatory men I know all tend to pretend to be left-wing and woke but there is also a tendency for some on the Right to be less than courteous towards women as well.

Actually, look for a wife. Somebody you would sacrifice your life for. Somebody who will nurture your children. Not just a quick bunk-up. And get married. Church, local hall, buffet, disco and plenty of laughs. That's it. £5k tops. Any more and its just showing off.

These Incels don't get women because they are t***s. As simple as that.

Another great post! I once saw teenagers teasing a pal for going to church, they were all typical acting hard "rebels", I said he is actually the rebel going to church!

There will always be people born disadvantaged compared to the average...for an average to exist that's reality.

Some are just physically ugly or mentally low IQ...whatever it is that puts them down the average female's desirability list.

However, the society they exist in does have a significant role in the messaging to males and it reflects just how many find themselves in that position. You have written common sense advice from a socially conservative perspective on the kind of direction young males should take.....I'd add looking after themselves physically and building polite but assertive social skills....because interaction is highly important.

But not everyone has good people around them....many come from broken homes and get bad upbringings. This has always happened under any system but the numbers of those people are a reflection of the social messaging and pressures that exist within the society they live in.

We only have to look at the demonization basic masculinity gets....it's madness and only worsens outcomes.

Edited by Stirlingsays (16 Aug 2021 10.09pm)

Sorry what basic masculinity has been demonised exactly?

Wolf whistle, opening doors, complimenting them.
All stuff men love to do but are now demonised for doing. Funnily enough if real hetrosexual women; not big butch LGBTYDFJK (infinitum) ones; were actually asked what they thought of the above being an issue it would be laughed at by a massive majority.
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Haha this a pathetic response. You don’t talk to a lot of women do you?

Go and ask women how they feel about someone wolf whistling them and see what kind of response you get.

When has anyone ever demonised someone for opening a door for someone?

And it depends what the compliment is doesn’t it? There’s a difference between ‘nice dress’ and ‘nice dress, it makes your tits looks great’ isn’t there?

A lot of women feel uncomfortable getting compliments from men, especially from strangers, as it can come across as a sexual advance and just creepy.

Cool, and maybe it is sometimes.

However you do realise that the species needs to reproduce and not every male gets a masterclass in 'how to successfully get laid'.

Also there's the fact of objectivity over this, women are fine when it's someone they consider 'hot'.....when it's someone less desirable it's suddenly 'creepy'.

And look....I think women are wonderful but If you're going to be fair to both sexes then you need to look at both sides.....and when women approach men it's hardly subtle either....with the standard being wearing little and putting themselves in their vicinity until they get an actual approach....and then any crossed wires are all the male's fault.

And men don't complain do they, because most of them aren't tarts.

Edited by Stirlingsays (17 Aug 2021 3.39pm)

I'll do some reading after I've finished work but you seriously want me to read something written by this guy and take it seriously?

'Jon Anthony is a lifestyle design coach, who teaches men how to improve their dating skills, get in better shape, and make more money. He enjoys talking about workout supplements like SARMs, cryptocurrencies like Bitcoin and Ethereum, and dating techniques that men can use to improve their love lives.'

It's Bros like that that convince the rest of you there's a problem.

What do you think 'happiness' looked like for women in the 50s compared to now?

Do you think the same things which made women record high happiness levels in 1950s would make today's women happy?

Logically, if the sum of your ambition is to knock out a few kids and to hope your husband doesn't drink too much, you're likely to be much more easily pleased - that doesn't make it something to aspire to.

Haha this a pathetic response. You don’t talk to a lot of women do you?

Go and ask women how they feel about someone wolf whistling them and see what kind of response you get.

When has anyone ever demonised someone for opening a door for someone?

And it depends what the compliment is doesn’t it? There’s a difference between ‘nice dress’ and ‘nice dress, it makes your tits looks great’ isn’t there?

A lot of women feel uncomfortable getting compliments from men, especially from strangers, as it can come across as a sexual advance and just creepy.