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 Stirlingsays  25 Jul 17 10.55pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I do indeed like cats (I have two, instead of children) and periodically shave my head (currently just the sides). I also have a large swivel chair, which one of my cats likes to sit in my lap. I'm basically a fortune short of being a Bond villain. I'm going to play devil's advocate here. You've done well, isn't there a responsibility to have at least one child or adopt one?
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| Stirlingsays 25 Jul 17 10.56pm |
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Originally posted by johnno42000
The sonic screwdriver on supercharge vibrate, she'll end up like Barbarella in the Orgasmatron. Dr Oooooohhhh!
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 25 Jul 17 11.03pm |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
I understand, but it's not really about liking it or not liking it. I don't like seeing men kissing at a bus stop but I'm intellectually fine with it. You may well have been alienated by society but you also seem to have been rewarded by it. You have lucky to live in a society that rewards ability...it's not a given in this world. I do put self identity into my masculinity, but that doesn't mean I'm out playing darts and drinking pints and appreciating the curve of some girl's leg. Still, if I wanted to why not? Gender expression in a why that reflects your personality is no different to a gay parade....If it's you, be you. No one else has to like it. I get increasingly p1ssed off within today's popular culture with its doubled standards towards masculinity as opposed to feminism. A trans caller to Lbc this morning said masculinity and femininity aren't binary but a spectrum, like autism. I suppose that I'd be right in saying Dannyh is a more manly man than me but I bet he also has a feminine side.
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| Stirlingsays 25 Jul 17 11.11pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
A trans caller to Lbc this morning said masculinity and femininity aren't binary but a spectrum, like autism. I suppose that I'd be right in saying Dannyh is a more manly man than me but I bet he also has a feminine side. Most things that can be measured...I suppose can be measured plotted by spectrum. I think there is sense in that....Sexuality interestingly though appears to be more binary for males and less so for females.....though still measurable via a spectrum. We practically all have a father and a mother so in essence we all have yin and yang, masculinity and femininity. Though when we analyse what it is to be masculine as opposed to feminine or vice versea I suppose we are again back to a spectrum of traits.
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 26 Jul 17 12.02am |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
Most things that can be measured...I suppose can be measured plotted by spectrum. I think there is sense in that....Sexuality interestingly though appears to be more binary for males and less so for females.....though still measurable via a spectrum. We practically all have a father and a mother so in essence we all have yin and yang, masculinity and femininity. Though when we analyse what it is to be masculine as opposed to feminine or vice versea I suppose we are again back to a spectrum of traits. Go on with that idea, it's a bit vague.
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| Stirlingsays 26 Jul 17 12.12am |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
Go on with that idea, it's a bit vague. When they measure male and female sexuality. Males tend to be predominantly heterosexual with a minority of homosexuality and some bisexuality. Females follow the general pattern but with a lot more bisexuality. There's some evolutionary explanation for it that I can't remember.
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 26 Jul 17 12.18am |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
When they measure male and female sexuality. Males tend to be predominantly heterosexual with a minority of homosexuality and some bisexuality. Females follow the general pattern but with a lot more bisexuality. There's some evolutionary explanation for it that I can't remember. That's sexuality, but what about gender?
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| Stirlingsays 26 Jul 17 12.28am |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
That's sexuality, but what about gender? When we say gender...You have the physical differences between male and female. That's binary except for rare interstate situations. If we are talking mentality....I suppose we mean traits measured upon a spectrum don't we? I only recognise two genders but from within that people are what they are. We all self define and others define us. Freddie Mercury was a good example of how complex these things are. Edited by Stirlingsays (26 Jul 2017 1.18am)
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 26 Jul 17 1.25am |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
When we say gender...You have the physical differences between male and female. That's binary except for rare interstate situations. If we are talking mentality....I suppose we mean traits measured upon a spectrum don't we? I only recognise two genders but from within that people are what they are. We all self define and others define us. Freddie Mercury was a good example of how complex these things are. Edited by Stirlingsays (26 Jul 2017 1.18am) As are trans peeps.
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| Stirlingsays 26 Jul 17 1.50am |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
As are trans peeps. It's not something I know much about......They are a very small group. I like Blaire White on Youtube though. She seems to talk a lot of sense about it....So what I know I know from her/him. Edited by Stirlingsays (26 Jul 2017 1.51am)
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| Part Time James 26 Jul 17 3.34pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
As are trans peeps. Ah, "Trans People", the most confusing dance troupe I've ever seen on Top of the Pops.
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| nickgusset Shizzlehurst 26 Jul 17 3.38pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
Ah, "Trans People", the most confusing dance troupe I've ever seen on Top of the Pops. You omitted niceLegs & Cock
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| Part Time James 26 Jul 17 3.42pm |
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Originally posted by nickgusset
You omitted niceLegs & Cock Goes without saying.
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johnno42000  26 Jul 17 4.27pm |
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Are Trans People a form of new alien life that the new Doctor will have to battle?
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 27 Jul 17 1.38pm |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
When we say gender...You have the physical differences between male and female. That's binary except for rare interstate situations. If we are talking mentality....I suppose we mean traits measured upon a spectrum don't we? I only recognise two genders but from within that people are what they are. We all self define and others define us. Freddie Mercury was a good example of how complex these things are. Edited by Stirlingsays (26 Jul 2017 1.18am) I used to think it was pretty easy, until I studied Psychology. Sexuality, Gender biologically, Gender identity, personality etc are so complex, and impossible to easily define, that I think I know less with any certainty, than I did before. People are who they identify as, even if its something as absurd as a white girl identifying as a black man - because realistically, absolutely no one except that person can really have an idea of what is really going on under 'the hood'. I doubt that anyone who claims to be transgendered and lives openly is doing it for any other reason than it being 'their experience in the world' and I think that ultimately, we as a society have to get on with that and just accept that if I can be who I am, then you can be who you are, and steve can be Eve, if it makes steve happier.
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| Part Time James 27 Jul 17 1.41pm |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
When they measure male and female sexuality. Males tend to be predominantly heterosexual with a minority of homosexuality and some bisexuality. Females follow the general pattern but with a lot more bisexuality. There's some evolutionary explanation for it that I can't remember. They measured mine. 5" apparently. Does " mean inches? Beat that readers.
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 27 Jul 17 1.51pm |
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Originally posted by Stirlingsays
When they measure male and female sexuality. Males tend to be predominantly heterosexual with a minority of homosexuality and some bisexuality. Females follow the general pattern but with a lot more bisexuality. There's some evolutionary explanation for it that I can't remember. Depends how you measure sexuality. 45% of Men and 60% of women interviewed report having had sexual experiences with members of their own gender - which kind of puts a bit of an emphasis on bisexuality with a preferential choice - Which interestingly is reflected among our closest biological relative the Bonobo Chimp. I'd probably argue that the most common of human sexuality is masturbatory. Even among men and women, I reckon people crack one out to their own bass strum more than they have sex. My feeling is that people are sexually defined by pleasure and kinks more than biology or procreation. Is right to limit heterosexuality to just being man on woman, if it involves bondage and non-penetrative orgasm.
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 Hrolf The Ganger 27 Jul 17 2.03pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Depends how you measure sexuality. 45% of Men and 60% of women interviewed report having had sexual experiences with members of their own gender - which kind of puts a bit of an emphasis on bisexuality with a preferential choice - Which interestingly is reflected among our closest biological relative the Bonobo Chimp. I'd probably argue that the most common of human sexuality is masturbatory. Even among men and women, I reckon people crack one out to their own bass strum more than they have sex. My feeling is that people are sexually defined by pleasure and kinks more than biology or procreation. Is right to limit heterosexuality to just being man on woman, if it involves bondage and non-penetrative orgasm. Bonobos don't have highly restrictive cultural limitations on who they can have sex with unlike us humans who are forced to masturbate and commonly spend a long period with one partner. That is the price we pay for a civilised existance and one that ultimately gives us the most peace of mind.
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| Part Time James 27 Jul 17 2.08pm |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
Bonobos don't have highly restrictive cultural limitations on who they can have sex with unlike us humans who are forced to masturbate and commonly spend a long period with one partner. That is the price we pay for a civilised existance and one that ultimately gives us the most peace of mind. So that's basically all my evenings summarised by one line.
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