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 Michaelawt85  Bexley 30 Mar 17 10.57am |
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Originally posted by Kermit8
No such thing as a free munch. No one mentioned munching. He said talk about tits , palace and play x box before leaving
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 Part Time James 30 Mar 17 11.38am |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Some of us do this on Saturdays for free Yes, my inbox has been flooded since I posted it. Not sure I want to see down Cucking's top though. Sorry.
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| 7mins In the bush 30 Mar 17 11.40am |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
Please explain where the whoosh is? I said I was going to have to man up and ....(dramatic pause) and then ignore her. The first part of the sentence hints at doing the right thing, while the 2nd part of the sentence the contradicts the first part by choosing the wrong thing. Also, I don't think it makes someone a "prick" to ignore someone who is trying to ponce money off them.
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 30 Mar 17 11.42am |
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Originally posted by 7mins
I said I was going to have to man up and ....(dramatic pause) and then ignore her. The first part of the sentence hints at doing the right thing, while the 2nd part of the sentence the contradicts the first part by choosing the wrong thing. Also, I don't think it makes someone a "prick" to ignore someone who is trying to ponce money off them. Yeah but in her eyes she's done nothing wrong so probably thinks now you have had a blow job your off... Anyway.. whose next on your online dating radar. Let's help narrow it down to someone suitable for a date.
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 11.44am |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Yeah but in her eyes she's done nothing wrong so probably thinks now you have had a blow job your off... Anyway.. whose next on your online dating radar. Let's help narrow it down to someone suitable for a date. Yeah but if he buys her some shoes or takes her on holiday just to appease his guilt for receiving a blowie, is he not then just making her into a prostitute against her own volition? That's probably already been discussed. Been a bit in and out of this thread!
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 30 Mar 17 12.11pm |
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Originally posted by 7mins
I said I was going to have to man up and ....(dramatic pause) and then ignore her. The first part of the sentence hints at doing the right thing, while the 2nd part of the sentence the contradicts the first part by choosing the wrong thing. Also, I don't think it makes someone a "prick" to ignore someone who is trying to ponce money off them. Maybe you need to stay away from these girls that apparently only want you for your money. Personally from what you have stated on here, it seems you only want them for one thing anyway.
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 30 Mar 17 12.19pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
Matt I have never availed of such services nor driven round in a car around 'Bedford Hill' or the back streets of Streatham looking for 'Ladies of the night'. What about gentlemen of the evening?
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 30 Mar 17 12.28pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Yeah but in her eyes she's done nothing wrong so probably thinks now you have had a blow job your off... Anyway.. whose next on your online dating radar. Let's help narrow it down to someone suitable for a date. I met my wife via online dating after five or six years online. People tend to be looking for different things, from one night stands, to friends, to relationships and so on. Just like normal life. Generally I'd email people for a week or so - that way when it comes to meeting up, you've got a good idea of what their expectations are, and for a first date I'd go pretty low key, rather than a full on date. That way you get a feel for the chemistry as well, before anything goes further. My experience was it was better to be upfront about what you're looking for and your expectations etc. Some people I met, I really liked but neither of us really saw a future, but for a time it was good for both of us - Just like life in general. Don't go looking 'for love', anymore than you would if you were out in a club or bar etc. It'll find you when you least expect it. Online dating really works best as a numbers game (i.e you get to meet a lot more people and thus narrow down the odds of finding that someone).
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 12.29pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
What about gentlemen of the evening? The term "gentlemen" is definitely the wrong label for them. Same with a "Gentleman's Club". I Googled what they were and I tell you what, the stuff they get up to in one is NOT the behaviour of a bowler hat wearing cricket fan in my book.
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 12.29pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I met my wife via online dating after five or six years online. People tend to be looking for different things, from one night stands, to friends, to relationships and so on. Just like normal life. Generally I'd email people for a week or so - that way when it comes to meeting up, you've got a good idea of what their expectations are, and for a first date I'd go pretty low key, rather than a full on date. That way you get a feel for the chemistry as well, before anything goes further. My experience was it was better to be upfront about what you're looking for and your expectations etc. Some people I met, I really liked but neither of us really saw a future, but for a time it was good for both of us - Just like life in general. Don't go looking 'for love', anymore than you would if you were out in a club or bar etc. It'll find you when you least expect it. Online dating really works best as a numbers game (i.e you get to meet a lot more people and thus narrow down the odds of finding that someone). That's where I met her too
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 30 Mar 17 12.31pm |
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Originally posted by 7mins
I said I was going to have to man up and ....(dramatic pause) and then ignore her. The first part of the sentence hints at doing the right thing, while the 2nd part of the sentence the contradicts the first part by choosing the wrong thing. Also, I don't think it makes someone a "prick" to ignore someone who is trying to ponce money off them. Or talk to her about it. I know, that sounds like grown up advice and a bit boring, but in the end, its a lot easier when you just talk about these things. People have very different outlooks and expectations - Plus it usually prevents them trying to kill themselves in your front garden on a Thursday night to prove their love.
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 30 Mar 17 12.33pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
That's where I met her too And by online dating, I mean Adult 'Friend' finder.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 30 Mar 17 12.33pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Or talk to her about it. I know, that sounds like grown up advice and a bit boring, but in the end, its a lot easier when you just talk about these things. People have very different outlooks and expectations - Plus it usually prevents them trying to kill themselves in your front garden on a Thursday night to prove their love.
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 12.34pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
And by online dating, I mean Adult 'Friend' finder. You have to pay for that. If you want to know some good websites for making friends using only pictures of your junk, PM me.
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 30 Mar 17 12.35pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I met my wife via online dating after five or six years online. People tend to be looking for different things, from one night stands, to friends, to relationships and so on. Just like normal life. Generally I'd email people for a week or so - that way when it comes to meeting up, you've got a good idea of what their expectations are, and for a first date I'd go pretty low key, rather than a full on date. That way you get a feel for the chemistry as well, before anything goes further. My experience was it was better to be upfront about what you're looking for and your expectations etc. Some people I met, I really liked but neither of us really saw a future, but for a time it was good for both of us - Just like life in general. Don't go looking 'for love', anymore than you would if you were out in a club or bar etc. It'll find you when you least expect it. Online dating really works best as a numbers game (i.e you get to meet a lot more people and thus narrow down the odds of finding that someone).
Maybe he can tell us more why past relationships have all fizzled out. These dates all seem to be gold diggers but what has gone wrong in past relationships
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 30 Mar 17 12.40pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
The term "gentlemen" is definitely the wrong label for them. Same with a "Gentleman's Club". I Googled what they were and I tell you what, the stuff they get up to in one is NOT the behaviour of a bowler hat wearing cricket fan in my book. I always assumed the phrase was because they 'were professional in their outlook and upfront' rather than normal encounters which are invariably drunken, deceitful and often involve much confusion between the involved parties. Friend of my wife used to be an escort (Friend of ours used to run an escort agency). It all sounded very matter of fact and friendly, lacking all of the usual pressures, manipulations, expectations and duplicity of a relationship. Of course it lacks the passion, that can only exist where you're having sex with someone who probably could kill you, or be murdered by you. That's what passion is, that knowledge that you love someone so much, that you tolerate the 'little things' that partners end up doing life for.
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| jamiemartin721 Reading 30 Mar 17 12.45pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
True story, of a guy who worked for me when I managed a Works store. This girl, who he'd treated really badly, ended up slashing her wrists in his front garden and wailing like a banshee. Unsurprisingly, this didn't 'heal their relationship' at all, but she did get sectioned and the help she needed. It also cleared up why she was going out with him, because she was definitely out of his league.
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| Part Time James 30 Mar 17 12.46pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I always assumed the phrase was because they 'were professional in their outlook and upfront' rather than normal encounters which are invariably drunken, deceitful and often involve much confusion between the involved parties. Friend of my wife used to be an escort (Friend of ours used to run an escort agency). It all sounded very matter of fact and friendly, lacking all of the usual pressures, manipulations, expectations and duplicity of a relationship. Of course it lacks the passion, that can only exist where you're having sex with someone who probably could kill you, or be murdered by you. That's what passion is, that knowledge that you love someone so much, that you tolerate the 'little things' that partners end up doing life for. I always thought it just meant coke sniffing alpha wannabes that put a pair of shiny shoes on and think they are the dog's bollocks rather than self absorbed saddos that just have a few extra quid in their pockets.
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 30 Mar 17 12.51pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
I always thought it just meant coke sniffing alpha wannabes that put a pair of shiny shoes on and think they are the dog's bollocks rather than self absorbed saddos that just have a few extra quid in their pockets. Yes but in all honesty would any of you date or more than date a woman if you found out she had been an escort?
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 30 Mar 17 12.54pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
True story, of a guy who worked for me when I managed a Works store. This girl, who he'd treated really badly, ended up slashing her wrists in his front garden and wailing like a banshee. Unsurprisingly, this didn't 'heal their relationship' at all, but she did get sectioned and the help she needed. It also cleared up why she was going out with him, because she was definitely out of his league. Oh my god, seriously? Bloody hell theres being upset about a break up and theres that.
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