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Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 30 Mar 17 12.57pm

Originally posted by steph_eagle

Oh my god, seriously? Bloody hell theres being upset about a break up and theres that.

It was clearly the straw which broke the camel's back so to speak

 


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Part Time James Flag 30 Mar 17 1.01pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

Yes but in all honesty would any of you date or more than date a woman if you found out she had been an escort?

Depends what sort of escort. If she had just gone on dates with men to keep them company then I'd be fine with it. If "escort" is a term to dress up "hooker" then no. But most blokes date girls that they know aren't virgins.

 




Cucking Funt Flag Clapham on the Back 30 Mar 17 1.01pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

Yes but in all honesty would any of you date or more than date a woman if you found out she had been an escort?

At least she'd know how to please a man. And let's face it, that's all that matters.

 


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Hoof Hearted 30 Mar 17 1.05pm

One of the young lads in the football team I managed was engaged to a girl who tried many times to top herself before succeeding.

He came back to play after a few weeks and the rest of the lads decided to try and break the ice by singing in the showers to cheer him up.... it was all going well till our centre forward sang "Girlfriend In A Coma" by the Smiths and everyone went quiet....

 

7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.34pm

Originally posted by jamiemartin721

Or talk to her about it. I know, that sounds like grown up advice and a bit boring, but in the end, its a lot easier when you just talk about these things. People have very different outlooks and expectations - Plus it usually prevents them trying to kill themselves in your front garden on a Thursday night to prove their love.

I'm in the process of buying a new house (to do up) I've told her this doesn't allow me the time to go away. (This is a white lie)
I will now not contact her. If she contacts me, I'll be polite but brief in all future correspondence.

 

7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.40pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85


To be fair it sounds from what he had said that the op did all this. Had a low key first date and had kept it all low key.

Maybe he can tell us more why past relationships have all fizzled out. These dates all seem to be gold diggers but what has gone wrong in past relationships

Girls my age want kids/marriage/security. I'm not against that, but it has to be a natural progression. Meet a girl who's 37, and wants kids... they don't half push the issue.. it has to be organic. I'm also (more) selective now... I won't settle for anything that doesn't meet my expectations... which aren't massively high... just want a decent girl, with a decent moral compass.

 

Superfly Flag The sun always shines in Catford 30 Mar 17 1.41pm

and big melons

 


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7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.43pm

Originally posted by steph_eagle

Maybe you need to stay away from these girls that apparently only want you for your money. Personally from what you have stated on here, it seems you only want them for one thing anyway.

I'm not sure where you got that impression. I'm a red blooded male, and if two adults enjoy themselves... then happy days. If I was some kind of predator, I'd use this gold digger for sex before giving her the elbow. I'm doing the opposite... I'm tapping out before I sex her up.

 

7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 1.44pm

Originally posted by Superfly

and big melons

^ forgot this

 

Part Time James Flag 30 Mar 17 1.46pm

Originally posted by Superfly

and big melons

Any melons. Just melons. Mmmm, melons.

 




gambler Flag Kent 30 Mar 17 1.57pm

Originally posted by 7mins

Girls my age want kids/marriage/security. I'm not against that, but it has to be a natural progression. Meet a girl who's 37, and wants kids... they don't half push the issue.. it has to be organic. I'm also (more) selective now... I won't settle for anything that doesn't meet my expectations... which aren't massively high... just want a decent girl, with a decent moral compass.

You sound like a nice man, a real catch.

If only i was 10 years younger. And single. And female.

 

Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 30 Mar 17 2.14pm

Go younger .. she's probably thinking hmm. Once he's done house up and sold it lots of moula for an even better holiday..

 


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Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 30 Mar 17 2.18pm

Anyway back to the topic.. she's been gently jogged on in your mind. Who's next on the radar. You said you would leave us to make your dating decisions. Give us a couple of options and we will have a vote / give advice / take the piss as appropriate

Edited by Michaelawt85 (30 Mar 2017 2.18pm)

 


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Part Time James Flag 30 Mar 17 3.04pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

Anyway back to the topic.. she's been gently jogged on in your mind. Who's next on the radar. You said you would leave us to make your dating decisions. Give us a couple of options and we will have a vote / give advice / take the piss as appropriate

Edited by Michaelawt85 (30 Mar 2017 2.18pm)

Include pictures.

Splayed

 




matt_himself Flag Matataland 30 Mar 17 3.15pm

Originally posted by gambler

You sound like a nice man, a real catch.

If only i was 10 years younger. And single. And female.

Sounds like you are curious. Why don't you give it a go?

At best you'll get a few dinners and a reach around.

 


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7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 3.19pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

Anyway back to the topic.. she's been gently jogged on in your mind. Who's next on the radar. You said you would leave us to make your dating decisions. Give us a couple of options and we will have a vote / give advice / take the piss as appropriate

Edited by Michaelawt85 (30 Mar 2017 2.18pm)

I have been chatting to a woman, 42... works in health care, 1 child (13). We've only spoken once on the phone, said she'd rather go out on a week night, but not in the town she lives.

Date

Or

Swerve

?

 

Part Time James Flag 30 Mar 17 3.21pm

Originally posted by 7mins

I have been chatting to a woman, 42... works in health care, 1 child (13). We've only spoken once on the phone, said she'd rather go out on a week night, but not in the town she lives.

Date

Or

Swerve

?

Can you remind us how old you are? 42 sounds well saucy to me, but I'm 35.

 




7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 3.25pm

There's also another on the horizon, but she's 50... and likes Elvis.

 

jamiemartin721 Flag Reading 30 Mar 17 3.25pm

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

Yes but in all honesty would any of you date or more than date a woman if you found out she had been an escort?

I think so, but she's not getting to go on holiday until the 3rd date, and she can pay for half the meal.

 


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7mins Flag In the bush 30 Mar 17 3.26pm

Originally posted by Part Time James

Can you remind us how old you are? 42 sounds well saucy to me, but I'm 35.

19

Early 40's actually

 

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