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 Part Time James  29 Aug 17 4.54pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I think we're all disabled, its just some of us realise it because it shows. When I was diagnosed, they said I'd likely be on medication and classed as disabled, which being a contrary kind of person, meant that I turned it around, forged a career and tripled my salary inside of a few years. I don't like being told I cannot do something. Yeah fair comment. I'm definitely not wired up right! But joking aside, I guess 'disabled' is misleading and more representative of a medical stance on something. If something doesn't stop you from doing everything you want to do, then you've not been disabled by it. Hampered maybe, but overcoming it renders the word 'disabled' incorrect. That's not me playing it down or questioning your use of the word. Just the word in general.
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| Stirlingsays 29 Aug 17 4.54pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
I'm so 21st Century, T-Rex covered me. Besides, if you don't listen, how are you going to construct an alibi.
Hell yeah.
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| Part Time James 29 Aug 17 4.55pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Nah you need to catch 'call backs'. Women really like it if you can refer back to something they said and expand on it. If you're sat there, doing nothing, might as well pay attention and make the most of it. I'm a right social chameleon. I think its because I used to be very shy as a teenager, I just watched, listened and learned. I'd have made a great serial killer. Trust me, if I want to respond to anything my wife says then I need to make an appointment two weeks in advance. We're both happy though. She talks a lot and I sit and think about food and football.
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Forest Hillbilly  in a hidey-hole 29 Aug 17 5.01pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
I wanted to see if my old hotmail email address was still active at one point but couldn't remember the exact format of it. For some reason I thought I'd type it into Google to see if that had cached anything with the username. The top hit was a video I posted online about 10 years ago of me ejaculating. I can't get rid of it. It's had over 4000 hits. Glad my face isn't in it. and yet, the photo would be extremely impressive if you managed to get your face and todger together in the same 'shot'
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 Hrolf The Ganger 29 Aug 17 5.17pm |
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Originally posted by jamiemartin721
Question though, what is slutty? I find that I can find a 'stuffy' woman in a cardigan, buttoned up blouse, hair bun and glasses much more phowar than tiny skirts and flimsy tight tops. People are attracted to all sorts of weird stuff. I can't describe exactly what I like but I know it when I see it.
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| matt_himself Matataland 29 Aug 17 5.24pm |
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A guy I used to work with really went for stereotypical lesbian looking women. Short hair, a bit butch, etc. He had a surprisingly high hit ratio,
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Littlebogreek  29 Aug 17 5.25pm |
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I've discussed at length with my work colleagues why there are so many more attractive women about when its sunny - is it because they wear less etc etc. We actually came up with the conclusion that sunglasses hide a multitude of sins and make them appear more attractive than they actually are if you could see the look of crazy in their eyes.
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| Hrolf The Ganger 29 Aug 17 5.34pm |
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Originally posted by Frickin Saweet
you're only speaking for yourself there not all men. I have more respect for slutty girls who don't conform to your ideal than frigid ones who are afraid to express their real self for fear of being judged. It takes more courage to be a slut and not care what those old bizzy bodies with outdated views on what is appropriate may think. Go sluts!! That's what I usually do. It's a question of equality. Women say they want to be taken seriously and treated equally so it is only right that we should apply the same rules to them as we would to men. It is fine for a woman to have multiple sexual partners for example, as men often do, but if a woman wears a backless dress or has very visible cleavage or a skirt that shows off her flange, she must expect to be objectified. She is perfectly entitled to dress that way but then cannot complain about being leered at or categorised in a particular way. Whether she cares what other people think is irrelevant. She will be judged, care or not.
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Frickin Saweet  South Cronx 29 Aug 17 5.39pm |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
That's what I usually do. It's a question of equality. Women say they want to be taken seriously and treated equally so it is only right that we should apply the same rules to them as we would to men. It is fine for a woman to have multiple sexual partners for example, as men often do, but if a woman wears a backless dress or has very visible cleavage or a skirt that shows off her flange, she must expect to be objectified. She is perfectly entitled to dress that way but then cannot complain about being leered at or categorised in a particular way. Whether she cares what other people think is irrelevant. She will be judged, care or not. surely all women are objectified? or is that just me?
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| Hrolf The Ganger 29 Aug 17 5.50pm |
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Originally posted by Frickin Saweet
surely all women are objectified? or is that just me? Objectification has degrees. It is natural to be attracted to the female form but to see women as only objects of male gratification is another level.
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| Stirlingsays 29 Aug 17 7.58pm |
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Originally posted by Hrolf The Ganger
People are attracted to all sorts of weird stuff. I can't describe exactly what I like but I know it when I see it. You could of course show us through the interpretation of dance....via a video clip.
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| Stirlingsays 29 Aug 17 8.03pm |
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The whole sexual object is such stupid BS that I've never been able to take it seriously. It's just another example of a minority of people trying to deny human nature and push a narrow definition of what is acceptable forward. If no one's being hurt then fcuk what they think.
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