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Quote the despotic banana at 11 Mar 2004 11:25pm

But Huntley could have had an excellent explanation and you'd still hate him because you've presupposed him to be evil and guilty because you're revulsed by paedophiles.


Absolute rubbish.

You said in your original post that "The deaths of the two girls may have been a genuine accident, and without knowing what went on, we cannot judge Huntley and decide him to be evil on that basis."

But we can judge him, and thats exactly what the law of the land does - judge someone on the available evidence. He was found guilty after having a fair trial, because thats what we do.

And i never said he was evil. I said that i was unsure as to what punishment he should receive for the crimes that he undoubtedly did commit.


And i never said he was guilty just because i'm revulsed by paedophiles. The jury said he was guilty and quite frankly i can't understand how any right minded and normal person could not agree with that jury having heard the evidence.

I'm as liberal as the next man but this is exactly what I was going to say...once its been decided in Court at a fair trial (and there has been no appeal against this as such) then we can accept what was decided as fact. Yes not all trials get it right, but 99.9% do!

My personal view is that there is no crime worse than that of someone who rapes and kills a child. Having just had a week of lectures on sexual offences I am sick to the stomach with hearing case after case of vile rape. But most are against adults. I can't begin to contemplate this crime against a defenceless child.

If an act is something that a person cannot stop themselves from committing, then they have a mental disorder and should be committed to an asylum. BUT if someone has the forethought to plan and carry out such a vile act, there is no mental illness. This is not an irresistable impulse. They are as criminally liable as he who goes into a bank and puts a gun to the cashier's head. Call me evil, but let them rot.

 


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Quote the despotic banana at 11 Mar 2004 11:56pm

Obviously if sex with women above the age of 16 was outlawed tomorrow you'd have the strength of mind to go your whole life without giving in to your sexual desires. And obviously you'd be able to cope with knowing that if anyone ever found out your secret you'd have a lynch mob round your house in seconds wanting to tear you limb from limb. You can't imagine what it must feel like to have that gnawing away inside you for years, and you can't imagine what lengths that would drive you to. Obviously I don't condone rape or murder but let's face it, society drives them to it.

Edited by the despotic banana (11 Mar 2004 11:57pm)

Regardless of the age then...rape is rape, murder is murder.

 


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Quote the despotic banana at 11 Mar 2004 11:56pm

Obviously if sex with women above the age of 16 was outlawed tomorrow you'd have the strength of mind to go your whole life without giving in to your sexual desires. And obviously you'd be able to cope with knowing that if anyone ever found out your secret you'd have a lynch mob round your house in seconds wanting to tear you limb from limb. You can't imagine what it must feel like to have that gnawing away inside you for years, and you can't imagine what lengths that would drive you to. Obviously I don't condone rape or murder but let's face it, society drives them to it.

Edited by the despotic banana (11 Mar 2004 11:57pm)

So we as a society drove Huntly to rape and murder? That is the biggest amount of bulls*** i have ever read on these boards. It is also incredibly insulting.

You argue that peadophillia is not a choice but that their urges drive them to such acts? Surely that lack of self restraint for something they know is wrong is why they are so loathed?

 


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It's a shame you didn't stick to your word and go to bed after your post before this one.I've never heard such rubbish. Please explain how you think that " society " drove Huntly and his like into doing what they did ? Are you saying that we are all collectively to blame ?? Well speak for yourself, I'm not accepting any responsibility for those sick deeds...although I assume you are ??

Quote the despotic banana at 11 Mar 2004 11:56pm

Obviously if sex with women above the age of 16 was outlawed tomorrow you'd have the strength of mind to go your whole life without giving in to your sexual desires. And obviously you'd be able to cope with knowing that if anyone ever found out your secret you'd have a lynch mob round your house in seconds wanting to tear you limb from limb. You can't imagine what it must feel like to have that gnawing away inside you for years, and you can't imagine what lengths that would drive you to. Obviously I don't condone rape or murder but let's face it, society drives them to it.

Edited by the despotic banana (11 Mar 2004 11:57pm)


 


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Oh, my word.

It is simply not possible or appropriate to place any kind of blame on society for Huntley's actions. In fact, linking this crime to any perceived flaw in our society is completely and totally irrelevant. Leaving out the hysteria whipped up by the press over this case, Huntley's actions can only be interpreted as pure, unadulterated evil. It's really as simple as that. Throughout history, society has evolved what we might call 'norms' of behaviour and no civilisation has ever, ever accommodated either paedophilia or child murder. This has been the case the world over. Offences against children have always attracted greater disapproval, for a variety of reasons - the rape of innocence, the destruction of that society's future, the sheer defencelessness and blamelessness of the victim and so on. There can never, ever be any excuse within a sophisticated social system.

Society can, and to an extent does, take the blame for a variety of types of criminal behaviour - poverty, discrimination and exploitation are prime motives behind what we call 'crime'. But society can accept no responsibility for the actions of people like Huntley. His kind are an evil that lurks within our civilisation; there is no justification, no possible excuse that can be offered in mitigation of his actions, in much the same way that there can be no excuses for the Bradys, Hindleys, Wests and all the other monsters who exist completely outside the boundaries of acceptable behaviour. The penal and judicial systems are, as matters stand, utterly powerless to differentiate between degrees of seriousness - murder is murder, regardless of who the victim is or what the killer's motives were.

If 'society' has any responsibility at all, it is to create some kind of separate legal definition of crimes of the kind committed by Huntley so that a sentencing policy that reflects the universal disapproval of such action can be implemented. In this case, I have to conclude that death can be the only realistic option. This is not about retribution and rehabilitation, the twin pillars of the penal system; the Huntleys of this world fall entirely outside the scope of such principles. It is about satisfying society's demand for genuine justice, acknowledging the outrage that society feels and clinically removing from the face of the earth an influence which is inherently and unequivocally evil.

 


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Quote NEILLO at 12 Mar 2004 12:21am

It's a shame you didn't stick to your word and go to bed after your post before this one.I've never heard such rubbish. Please explain how you think that " society " drove Huntly and his like into doing what they did ? Are you saying that we are all collectively to blame ?? Well speak for yourself, I'm not accepting any responsibility for those sick deeds...although I assume you are ??

Consider a society that is compassionate and humane. A society where tabloids don't propagate hate-mongering. A society where a paedophile can openly admit to suffering with a problem and seek help and support without fear of having some News Of The World-reading-lynch mob smashing down his door. Would this paedophile then be as likely to commit these horrendous crimes? Well maybe so, but as we don't live in a society where people are given a chance we will continue to force paedophiles underground. They will be left isolated and this can only serve to make the problem worse. It may comfort you to think of them as monsters but paedophiles are human, just like you and me. We are no better than them - I fully expect to be pilloried for saying that, but I think it's something some of you need to hear.


 


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Quote the despotic banana at 12 Mar 2004 1:06am

Quote NEILLO at 12 Mar 2004 12:21am

It's a shame you didn't stick to your word and go to bed after your post before this one.I've never heard such rubbish. Please explain how you think that " society " drove Huntly and his like into doing what they did ? Are you saying that we are all collectively to blame ?? Well speak for yourself, I'm not accepting any responsibility for those sick deeds...although I assume you are ??

Consider a society that is compassionate and humane. A society where tabloids don't propagate hate-mongering. A society where a paedophile can openly admit to suffering with a problem and seek help and support without fear of having some News Of The World-reading-lynch mob smashing down his door. Would this paedophile then be as likely to commit these horrendous crimes? Well maybe so, but as we don't live in a society where people are given a chance we will continue to force paedophiles underground. They will be left isolated and this can only serve to make the problem worse. It may comfort you to think of them as monsters but paedophiles are human, just like you and me. We are no better than them - I fully expect to be pilloried for saying that, but I think it's something some of you need to hear.

I can see what you're getting at but paedophiles are as responsible as anyone else in controlling their urges. Just because someone may fancy blondes more than brunettes doesn't mean that he's going to abduct, torture and rape them. If someone feels that that is where his inclinations lie, then there is help available, be that via their GP or through the many, free confidential counselling services that are available. It is safe to classify Huntley and his type as evil because he knew that he had those urges - if he acknowledged them as being wrong, somewhere along the line conscience would have kicked in. But it didn't. He actively concealed his past brushes with the law for related offences, he showed utterly no remorse during the trial and even now he refuses to reveal what truly happened that day; anyone with a shred of humanity or decency would have at least done that, if only to put the girls' parents out of their misery. He's content to sentence them to a lifetime of anguish, knowing that they'll never know what really happened to their daughters. Why not acknowledge that evil exists instead of trying to find some justification for them, be it mental problems or some kind of flaw in society? This guy is a monster, pure and simple, and I think you're on very, very shaky ground if you suggest that we are no better than his kind; the overwhelming majority of us have an acute sense of right and wrong, something Huntley failed to demonstrate and continues to do so.

 


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Quote NEILLO at 12 Mar 2004 12:21am

It's a shame you didn't stick to your word and go to bed after your post before this one.I've never heard such rubbish. Please explain how you think that " society " drove Huntly and his like into doing what they did ? Are you saying that we are all collectively to blame ?? Well speak for yourself, I'm not accepting any responsibility for those sick deeds...although I assume you are ??

Consider a society that is compassionate and humane. A society where tabloids don't propagate hate-mongering. A society where a paedophile can openly admit to suffering with a problem and seek help and support without fear of having some News Of The World-reading-lynch mob smashing down his door. Would this paedophile then be as likely to commit these horrendous crimes? Well maybe so, but as we don't live in a society where people are given a chance we will continue to force paedophiles underground. They will be left isolated and this can only serve to make the problem worse. It may comfort you to think of them as monsters but paedophiles are human, just like you and me. We are no better than them - I fully expect to be pilloried for saying that, but I think it's something some of you need to hear.

I can see what you're getting at but paedophiles are as responsible as anyone else in controlling their urges. Just because someone may fancy blondes more than brunettes doesn't mean that he's going to abduct, torture and rape them. If someone feels that that is where his inclinations lie, then there is help available, be that via their GP or through the many, free confidential counselling services that are available. It is safe to classify Huntley and his type as evil because he knew that he had those urges - if he acknowledged them as being wrong, somewhere along the line conscience would have kicked in. But it didn't. He actively concealed his past brushes with the law for related offences, he showed utterly no remorse during the trial and even now he refuses to reveal what truly happened that day; anyone with a shred of humanity or decency would have at least done that, if only to put the girls' parents out of their misery. He's content to sentence them to a lifetime of anguish, knowing that they'll never know what really happened to their daughters. Why not acknowledge that evil exists instead of trying to find some justification for them, be it mental problems or some kind of flaw in society? This guy is a monster, pure and simple, and I think you're on very, very shaky ground if you suggest that we are no better than his kind; the overwhelming majority of us have an acute sense of right and wrong, something Huntley failed to demonstrate and continues to do so.

1. Being attracted to blondes isn't a criminal offence though.
2. If Huntley did intentionally kill the girls then yes, his continued refusal to reveal what actually happened to the girl's families is utterly heartless. But if his testimony was the truth then what more has he to say?
3. I acknowledge that evil exists and I'm not trying to justify it, but I believe that those who seek to punish evil with such fervent blood-lust, either through vigilante action or by calling for capital punishment are themselves no better than the evil they so loathe.
4. We are no better than 'his kind' as you put it. We all are, after all, human and therefore it could have just as likely have been one of us in his position. And if we consider that then maybe we won't be so quick to bay for blood next time.

 


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I can see what you're getting at but paedophiles are as responsible as anyone else in controlling their urges. Just because someone may fancy blondes more than brunettes doesn't mean that he's going to abduct, torture and rape them. If someone feels that that is where his inclinations lie, then there is help available, be that via their GP or through the many, free confidential counselling services that are available. It is safe to classify Huntley and his type as evil because he knew that he had those urges - if he acknowledged them as being wrong, somewhere along the line conscience would have kicked in. But it didn't. He actively concealed his past brushes with the law for related offences, he showed utterly no remorse during the trial and even now he refuses to reveal what truly happened that day; anyone with a shred of humanity or decency would have at least done that, if only to put the girls' parents out of their misery. He's content to sentence them to a lifetime of anguish, knowing that they'll never know what really happened to their daughters. Why not acknowledge that evil exists instead of trying to find some justification for them, be it mental problems or some kind of flaw in society? This guy is a monster, pure and simple, and I think you're on very, very shaky ground if you suggest that we are no better than his kind; the overwhelming majority of us have an acute sense of right and wrong, something Huntley failed to demonstrate and continues to do so.

1. Being attracted to blondes isn't a criminal offence though.

Not relevant. The point is about the pursuit of one's urges and the lengths one will go to in order to fulfill them.

2. If Huntley did intentionally kill the girls then yes, his continued refusal to reveal what actually happened to the girl's families is utterly heartless. But if his testimony was the truth then what more has he to say?

His testimony was proved to be false. His alibis did not correspond and the explanation he offered for the girls' deaths was manifestly absurd. Have you read the transcripts?

3. I acknowledge that evil exists and I'm not trying to justify it, but I believe that those who seek to punish evil with such fervent blood-lust, either through vigilante action or by calling for capital punishment are themselves no better than the evil they so loathe.

It's not about blood lust or vigilante action. Society has an absolute right to make and enforce laws that are not only just but represent the will and the sensitivities of its members. In such circumstances, the death penalty is justifiable - this has been the view of philosophers all the way back to Ancient Greece and of the majority of the great 'humane' figures in history.

4. We are no better than 'his kind' as you put it. We all are, after all, human and therefore it could have just as likely have been one of us in his position. And if we consider that then maybe we won't be so quick to bay for blood next time.

If, as you say, 'one of us' is in that position, then we have no reason to expect to be treated particularly leniently. I'm happy to use the phrase 'his kind' because, as a member of a civilised society, I consider him to be outside the parameters within which one could be considered part of that society. Society is too large and too complex to be able to permit or even show lenience to crimes of this nature. To show any kind of tolerance towards people who commit these kind of crimes is, in fact, dangerous to the structure of that society as a whole - tolerance of something which is clearly anti-social can only weaken it.

Edited by Cucking Funt (12 Mar 2004 2:26am)

 


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There are certain crimes that mean you forfit the right to live amongst the rest of the human race and this was one of them.

Pete mate, what can I say , the sincerity of your post shone through. You're a stronger man than me, I couldn't watch it.

Despo, I am afraid whilst I see some of your logic you and the bleeding herats like you are perpetuating the myth that somehoe these people are victims. They should die. End of.

 


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Quote the despotic banana at 11 Mar 2004 11:11pm

Secondly, this is a problem of our own making - if paedophiles weren't so reviled by society then they wouldn't turn to such desperate measures. Paedophiles need to be helped not loathed. Tabloid papers whipping up frenzies and encouraging lynch mobs solves nothing, and it only makes the problem worse. If a paedophile knows that if he makes his problem public then he's going to be ostracised or worse, then he's better off keeping it a secret and letting it gnaw at him from the inside until one day he snaps with terrible consequences. We need to show them compassion and humanity, not seek to destroy them - it is not a conscious decision on a paedophile's part to become attracted to young children, they do not wake up one day and decide to find children arousing. Rather it would appear to be a mental problem, perhaps stemming from being abused as a child. It is not their fault, and we must acknowledge that.

A load of rubbish!

These sick "Humans" should be strung up or locked away from civilised society for ever!

Anyone who is tempted to harm kids shouldn't be allowed in public areas.

Have you got kids Despotic?


Edited by martin.cpfc (12 Mar 2004 8:00am)

 


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I agree with what you are trying to say Despotic, in theory it is right. In a forgiving and open world, crimes like this may not have been commited, and sick people like Huntley would hopefully have gotten the help they needed before doing something as unforgiveable as killing those poor girls.

However, that is only a theory. Communism in theory is the most perfect, utopic and democratic system for people to live by. Similar to your ideals, it is about people working for the benefit of others. However in practice it collapses, as human nature doesn't allow such equality. Just like in this situation, human nature will never allow Ian Huntley to ever be forgiven, nor in peoples eyes can justice ever be achieved. Killing him is too good, but nothing else is harsh enough. That is the sad reality of the situation, and no matter how much you want more kindness in the world to prevent crimes like those against Holly and Jessica, the crime has been commited and no longer does any rehabilitation apply to Huntley. He has gone past the point of no return and like has been said, has forfeited both the right to live amongst other people, or live at all.

I wont chastise your opinions Despo, you have a right to them and I don't think they carry any malice at all, in fact it is obviously the opposite. You aren't advocating Huntley, just pointing out the possibilities in the situation. But in such a sensitive issue, your opinion should have been kept to yourself, as most people aren't going to accept it, and respond aggresively. A better way to go about things is to apply your theories in the future, to prevent these sorts of crimes. Because no matter how good your intentions are, they no longer apply to Ian Huntley or any other criminal that has done such a terrible deed.

 

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