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View Petealiator's Profile Petealiator Flag 1066 Country! 12 Mar 04 1.25pm Send a Private Message to Petealiator Add Petealiator as a friend

Well the Huntley thing was no stranger to Holly and Jessica, so would not show up on this study.

 


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View w.w.j.d?'s Profile w.w.j.d? Flag Teddington (Hol Lower Block B Row ... 12 Mar 04 1.45pm Send a Private Message to w.w.j.d? Add w.w.j.d? as a friend

Interesting what someone said about the liberal church (being a church-goer and all). There is a lot more, I'll say variety for the loss of a better word, in churches nowadays. You can go either to churches that are straight down the line, or to ones where pretty much anything goes! (Personally, I'd like to think that the church I go to strikes the right balance between the two but that's an irrelevance)
I would venture that the reason that the church has become more liberal is because in recent times people have become a lot more hostile towards 'conservative' church going. (Homer Simpson: "I'm a good man, I love my wife and kids, why should I spend two hours on a Sunday being told I'm going to hell?" ) I think a lot of people still hold this view on the church. Because of this, the majority of this country now ignore the church, resulting in the church having to ask itself why?
Net result, more liberality????
Of course, I would also argue that churches have always presented the same story; of a fallen world redeemed by a loving God, which I suppose in a way sums up this whole debate, ie People do wrong (to greater or lesser degrees) and separate themselves from God, but God's love is greater than we can imagine and so he calls us back to him. A lot of people can't accept that or understand it. Hell, I don't even understand it fully, but I do believe in it with all my heart, mind and soul.

I'm not looking to start a religion argument BTW, because that would detract from the topic of this thread which I've read through with interest.
Just my two pen'orth...

Edited by w.w.j.d? (12 Mar 2004 1:45pm)

 


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View Pikester's Profile Pikester Flag Worthing 12 Mar 04 1.53pm Send a Private Message to Pikester Add Pikester as a friend

I couldn't watch a programme about it. When it all happened I was on holiday - just me and my 3 boys and I do not think I could ever cope with losing one of them.

I can see a bit of what Despotic is saying to prevent this happening but I don't believe many would turn themselves in. There's the (very) occasional story of a man begging to be locked up and the police let him out and he attacks someone.
But I think the vast majority are cunning devious perverts who are too weak to control their sick urges.

As Pete says, we all know the difference between right and wrong. Most men have strong urges at some point. If I go without for a couple of weeks I might feel pretty desperate about getting a **** but I'm not going to attack someone to get it.

There is no excuse for attacking a child and I worry when elements of society try to find a genetic flaw for everyone who doesn't fit the perfect example of the human species.

We are all different, different tolerances, different urges, different likes and dislikes.
For every abused person who goes on to commit the same crime there is another who vows it won't happen to their kids and is sickened by it. It smacks of the "I'm a victim" culture which Britain is getting sucked in to. The flood of compensation claims is another example where too many people think the world owes them a perfect life but they won't get off their arses and make it happen. If we all wallowed in self-pity we'd still be sitting in caves moaning how cold it was and how long it took to walk round the swamp.

What I do find hard to swallow Despotic is your belief that he may be telling the truth.
Two children in a bathroom, one has a nose bleed and falls in a bath. Instead of helping her he strangles her hysterical friend.

I'm afraid those are the sick excuses of a devious murderer who even after being found guilty cannot lift a finger to ease the pain of those poor parents.

 


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View JollyStef's Profile JollyStef 12 Mar 04 1.59pm Send a Private Message to JollyStef Add JollyStef as a friend

Wow ... well just read all these posts.

At the moment we, in this country, have got the Dutroux trial (remember, about 8 years ago he put Belgium 'on the map' by killing innocent girls etc.. a real shambles). This guy, at the moment, is treated like a King and when he asks he gets. Thank you society for this totally misplaced sense of political correctness !!

I don't know what to say, my ideas are definately 150% with Petealiator (and a few others) on this one. Evil is indeed amongst us and winning. How many perverts don't you know who think it's ok watch child porn etc...

I could go on for 7 pages about my believes and what should be done in these cases. people like Dutroux and your Mr. Huntley should NOT have any rights anymore, should not be listened to etc..

Everyone has had an upbringing, being hit when you're young by your parents doesn't mean you have to hit and kill people when you're an adult.
The same goes with sexual abuse etc.. we all still have a say in our actions and can decide how we act and react in life (and face the consequences when we overstep the line).

If you can't keep yourself from thinking bad stuff then the least you yourself can do is jerk off 15 times a day so you don't feel the need to MESS UP SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE !!

So Pete, you know where I stand on this .. I agree (as we've done so many times before).


 


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View Moose's Profile Moose Flag In the sewer pipe... 12 Mar 04 2.28pm Send a Private Message to Moose Add Moose as a friend

Great post, Pikey - straight from the heart. It's amazing as parents how our attitudes alter - everything just seems so much closer to home. I told you you should post in the serious threads a bit more.

 


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View jcreedy's Profile jcreedy Flag 12 Mar 04 2.58pm Send a Private Message to jcreedy Add jcreedy as a friend

Quote This guy, at the moment, is treated like a King and when he asks he gets. Thank you society for this totally misplaced sense of political correctness !!

Thats half the problem. Where is the punishment? Ok, they had most of their freedom taken away but the Bulger killers had facilities in their institution that thousands of kids in this country can only dream about. Now they're out in our society with new identities, houses and other material things that many people would like to have. Not exactly the punishment many of us feel they should have got.

I read the book, The Jigsaw Man (fantastic book) by Paul Britton who was a criminal psychologist on many cases including the Bulger/West ones, and was sickened by what Thompson and Venables had done to James Bulger and what The West's did to their victims. The newspapers/news can only report so much, books like the Jigsaw Man tell you everything and after reading it, I felt that people who commit these crimes don't deserve to live, let alone walk down the same street as me.

 


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View Bexter's Profile Bexter Flag By the Sea 12 Mar 04 3.03pm Send a Private Message to Bexter Add Bexter as a friend

so you think a child committing a crime should be treated as an adult committing a crime? in the case of the bulger killers? they would have got life if that was the case? i'm asking - not giving an opinion here.

 

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View Bexter's Profile Bexter Flag By the Sea 12 Mar 04 3.04pm Send a Private Message to Bexter Add Bexter as a friend

and from what i have read in the press (and they normally love to tell us what a cushy time prisoners are getting) huntley is having a pretty rough time. rightly so.

 

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View jcreedy's Profile jcreedy Flag 12 Mar 04 3.08pm Send a Private Message to jcreedy Add jcreedy as a friend

It's only my opinion but if two children can commit such a shocking crime at the age of ten, they can't be treated. They will have that evil streak in them forever. Why not treat them the same as adults? They may have been ten years old, but even at that age, I knew not to lead children away from their parents, kill them, throw bricks at them and lay the body across a railway track to be sliced in half.

Not having a dig Bexter, just saying what I think.

Edited by jcreedy (12 Mar 2004 3:09pm)

 


It was my dream to play for Palace and to make my debut. I've always played for the club so if I'm playing here, I wouldn't want to be anywhere else.

- John Bostock (Nov 2007)

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View Bexter's Profile Bexter Flag By the Sea 12 Mar 04 3.17pm Send a Private Message to Bexter Add Bexter as a friend

i know you're not having a dig, we're all a bit jumpy today! you keep talking about you, and everyone is not the same and everyone has varying degrees of mental problems, abuse, neglect, sensitivity to violent images. if only the world was full of you's! but it's not, and they were 10, i'm not sure you could lock them away for the rest of their lives at 10, that would be 3 families losing their children instead of 1, they were kids, not sure how responsible i was at 10, oh god, it's a hard one, it was such a sickening thing and made worse by the fact it was kids, made it harder to comprehend somehow.

 

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how many 10 year old torture to death animals and insects and all sorts? i don't want to say whether or not their treatment was right or wrong, but i don't believe your morality system is fully formed at 10.

 

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View jcreedy's Profile jcreedy Flag 12 Mar 04 3.24pm Send a Private Message to jcreedy Add jcreedy as a friend

Sorry Bexter, thats not right. You know whats right and whats wrong at 10 years old.

 


It was my dream to play for Palace and to make my debut. I've always played for the club so if I'm playing here, I wouldn't want to be anywhere else.

- John Bostock (Nov 2007)

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