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 steph_eagle  Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 2.25pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
Indeed I have seen young ladies buy their partner a drink at a bar which is very alien to me. In my day it was just the 'Done thing' that the male bought the drinks. If you took a girl to a cocktail bar this could work out quite expensive but then you went there knowing it would hit you in the pocket. All very different these days generally - I have seen couples out and they are on their phones not even talking to one another ! Probably texting each other !!!! Edited by Willo (15 Mar 2017 2.23pm) My ex used to like paying for everything, used to annoy me so much but it's not a bad thing, just I like to pay my own way.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 2.26pm |
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Originally posted by npn
Absolutely not just you - I'm afraid the fledgling relationship would not make it out of the nest for me if I caught someone doing that. Just a total lack of respect, and the "you shouldn't have left it lying around" argument doesn't wash - if I left my wallet lying around, would you have carte blanch to help yourself? No, I'd be worried I'd wake up with my trousers missing! Of course not, that's a little different to just leaving a bank statement on a table.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 2.27pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
It's true, I am extremely sensitive to caffeine and have been known to take my clothes off. Glass of milk for James
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 15 Mar 17 2.27pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
Have to agree with this. Michaela, was the bit in bold Del, he just likes it when anyone buys him a drink How did you guess ?? Seriously
When I was a young girl my Mother said to me.. You listen here kid you're CPFC |
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 7mins In the bush 15 Mar 17 2.31pm |
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Originally posted by npn
Absolutely not just you - I'm afraid the fledgling relationship would not make it out of the nest for me if I caught someone doing that. Just a total lack of respect, and the "you shouldn't have left it lying around" argument doesn't wash - if I left my wallet lying around, would you have carte blanch to help yourself? No, I'd be worried I'd wake up with my trousers missing! Yep. I would never read someones private mail... it just seems a massive invasion of privacy and abuse of trust. The letter was opened, but in a envelope... not that, that makes a difference. If I was at a girls house, and her bank statement was on the table... even in full view, I wouldn't read it.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 2.32pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
How did you guess ?? Seriously How did I guess you meant him or how did I guess you know him?
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| Willo South coast - west of Brighton. 15 Mar 17 2.33pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
If your date asks for a beer you better do a quick check for a frontal bulge before showing her your bedroom ceiling. LOL ! It was me who drank the beer but never got the dreaded 'Brewers Droop'. On a different tack, when a chap tries to 'Pull' a girl at a disco etc etc, is the old 'Chat up line' still used like in the old days ? Things like 'What is Brazil's most famous export' ? and when the girl answers "Coffee" the chap says "Your place or mine" ? Some awful ones in those days.
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 15 Mar 17 2.33pm |
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Originally posted by 7mins
Am I the only one who thinks reading someone else's mail is horrible thing to do? Most women would take a look at Steph says.. snooping through draws is rude . Did say that lol
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 15 Mar 17 2.34pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
How did I guess you meant him or how did I guess you know him? Both... oo err
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 2.37pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
LOL ! It was me who drank the beer but never got the dreaded 'Brewers Droop'. On a different tack, when a chap tries to 'Pull' a girl at a disco etc etc, is the old 'Chat up line' still used like in the old days ? Things like 'What is Brazil's most famous export' ? and when the girl answers "Coffee" the chap says "Your place or mine" ? Some awful ones in those days. "There are three ways you can tell a man is good in bed, 1) He is forgetful.....hang on.....I can't remember the other two". A classic and guaranteed to have a girl dripping like she's crushing a bath sponge with her thighs. Actually, no idea really. I've only ever met women via the internet. I don't expect that's a particularly startling revelation given my somewhat autistic approach to real life social interaction.
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| Willo South coast - west of Brighton. 15 Mar 17 2.38pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
My ex used to like paying for everything, used to annoy me so much but it's not a bad thing, just I like to pay my own way. I used to have a male who certainly didn't like paying his own way and his girlfriend used to end up buying most of the drinks.When she was in his flat and wanted to use the landline (No mobiles in those days), he used to ask her to put 10p in the jar ! They ended up getting married but I heard a long while ago that they were no longer together.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 2.38pm |
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Originally posted by Michaelawt85
Both... oo err Lol no I saw a photo on Dels Facebook
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 15 Mar 17 2.38pm |
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No, I'd be worried I'd wake up with my trousers missing! Liar
When I was a young girl my Mother said to me.. You listen here kid you're CPFC |
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| Michaelawt85 Bexley 15 Mar 17 2.39pm |
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Originally posted by steph_eagle
Lol no I saw a photo on Dels Facebook Oh yes we all look like smurfs with blue faces.
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| steph_eagle Thornton Heath 15 Mar 17 2.39pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
I used to have a male who certainly didn't like paying his own way and his girlfriend used to end up buying most of the drinks.When she was in his flat and wanted to use the landline (No mobiles in those days), he used to ask her to put 10p in the jar ! They ended up getting married but I heard a long while ago that they were no longer together. I'm not surprised they aren't.
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 2.39pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
I used to have a male who certainly didn't like paying his own way and his girlfriend used to end up buying most of the drinks.When she was in his flat and wanted to use the landline (No mobiles in those days), he used to ask her to put 10p in the jar ! They ended up getting married but I heard a long while ago that they were no longer together. Did she get her 10p back?
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| Willo South coast - west of Brighton. 15 Mar 17 2.39pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
"There are three ways you can tell a man is good in bed, 1) He is forgetful.....hang on.....I can't remember the other two". A classic and guaranteed to have a girl dripping like she's crushing a bath sponge with her thighs. Actually, no idea really. I've only ever met women via the internet. I don't expect that's a particularly startling revelation given my somewhat autistic approach to real life social interaction. Or as an old friend (Now sadly deceased) used to say "She was as wet as an otter's pocket".
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| Part Time James 15 Mar 17 2.40pm |
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Originally posted by Willo
Or as an old friend (Now sadly deceased) used to say "She was as wet as an otter's pocket". That was the name of this year's Viz Annual I believe.
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| Willo South coast - west of Brighton. 15 Mar 17 2.42pm |
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Originally posted by Part Time James
Did she get her 10p back? LOL ! He used to take all the change from that jar into a pub, lay it on the bar and buy a drink with it (On the few occasions he bought one for himself). He had a good job, was earning good money and had a lovely flat in Chislehurst.
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