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View Salford eagle's Profile Salford eagle Flag 12 Mar 17 8.38am Send a Private Message to Salford eagle Add Salford eagle as a friend

Online dating is fun and I've had a couple of long term relationships out of it. You shouldn't bring a first date back to your place, rookie mistake. You need to work out if they're crazy or not first, generally 3 or 4 dates on neutral ground as a rule of thumb. (That applies to both sexes).

There's no stigma on the online thing anymore. It can be difficult to meet people naturally in London. As for work flings, I work in an office and I've learnt from past mistakes that you don't s*** on your own doorstep. Not a great idea to end it with your manager, the workload was ridiculous

I had something similar in terms of the abuse, I was seeing an Italian girl and didn't respond to a text for a day, couldn't meet up for a week due to other commitments which I had explained. Next thing I know a barrage of abusive texts saying I was a player, seeing someone else and that I was weak etc. Not guilty to any of that, I'd only been seeing her 3-4 weeks. That ended sharpish!!!

Personally (and probably quite judgemental of me) I'd probably not consider a second date if she put it on a plate on the 1st.

Sadly I think some people have been stung in the past and take it out on the next guy!

Good luck with the hunt tho!

 


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View matt_himself's Profile matt_himself Flag Matataland 12 Mar 17 9.07am Send a Private Message to matt_himself Add matt_himself as a friend

Originally posted by Kermit8

You supercilious bitchy bitch.

I still don't believe you.

 


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View 7mins's Profile 7mins Flag In the bush 12 Mar 17 9.18am Send a Private Message to 7mins Add 7mins as a friend

Originally posted by Michaelawt85

One thing I did think.of. during this 3 days post nookie Visiting family and being busy before you made contact did you sign in and check your dating profile at all. Chances are if you did she clocked it and that's why she flipped.

What types do you generally go for and what does your profile say? Maybe it needs tweeking

I genuinely can't remember if I checked in to my dating app.
My profile is sparse and ambiguous.
I am thinking of updating it with no "nutjobs need apply".

Seriously, I think I'm gonna have to learn to deal with this kind of stuff. I'm gonna be tactile but stern. Any insults because you wanted a text... ya fired. Read my mail ... ya fired. Offended if I offer to pay... ya fired. Tell me your financial woes on date No1.... ya fired.

 

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View Michaelawt85's Profile Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 12 Mar 17 9.54am Send a Private Message to Michaelawt85 Add Michaelawt85 as a friend

Originally posted by 7mins

I genuinely can't remember if I checked in to my dating app.
My profile is sparse and ambiguous.
I am thinking of updating it with no "nutjobs need apply".

Seriously, I think I'm gonna have to learn to deal with this kind of stuff. I'm gonna be tactile but stern. Any insults because you wanted a text... ya fired. Read my mail ... ya fired. Offended if I offer to pay... ya fired. Tell me your financial woes on date No1.... ya fired.

I would personally bulk it out a bit . Less ambiguous and more tailored to what you are looking for. Your interests etc. Narrow it down a bit. Do you have a type either personality or looks wise. Maybe you keep being drawn to the same type hence these issues.

 


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View Michaelawt85's Profile Michaelawt85 Flag Bexley 12 Mar 17 9.59am Send a Private Message to Michaelawt85 Add Michaelawt85 as a friend

Originally posted by chateauferret

Blokes can be just as bad. Apparently there are a lot who think it's normal to send women they hardly know close-ups of their private parts with nor warning or prior discussion, let alone anything resembling a request. HTF that's not an offence I don't know.

Yes to this... had someone on here pm me asking if I consider being married and paying for (and I quote) a hand shandy to constitute cheating. Makes a change from who I think will win out next game I guess

 


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View Kermit8's Profile Kermit8 Flag Hevon 12 Mar 17 12.18pm Send a Private Message to Kermit8 Add Kermit8 as a friend

Originally posted by matt_himself

I still don't believe you.

A nicer reply than your previous sensibly self edited racist one. Well done you.

 


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View matt_himself's Profile matt_himself Flag Matataland 12 Mar 17 12.39pm Send a Private Message to matt_himself Add matt_himself as a friend

Originally posted by Kermit8

A nicer reply than your previous sensibly self edited racist one. Well done you.

Which friend will you make up next? The reformed Jihadi is my guess. It could be the remorseful Brexiteer.

 


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View dannyb1's Profile dannyb1 Flag Chichester 12 Mar 17 12.49pm Send a Private Message to dannyb1 Add dannyb1 as a friend

My first online date is now my wife, we met 6 years ago and have been married nearly 1.

 

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View Willo's Profile Willo Flag South coast - west of Brighton. 12 Mar 17 12.54pm Send a Private Message to Willo Add Willo as a friend

There appears to be a stigma about availing of 'Online Dating' and I cannot understand quite why.

My wife's friend recently said to hear about her new partner words to the effect "I hate to admit it but I used....". I certainly wouldn't be averse to it if I wished to forge a relationship with someone - But the photo might be off putting !!!!

 

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View Kermit8's Profile Kermit8 Flag Hevon 12 Mar 17 12.55pm Send a Private Message to Kermit8 Add Kermit8 as a friend

Originally posted by matt_himself

Which friend will you make up next? The reformed Jihadi is my guess. It could be the remorseful Brexiteer.

If I could magic up non-charging mate psychiatrists and psychologists who lived in Park Hill I would. And none of the University of Used-to-be-a-Poly rubbish. Straight from Oxbridge or that London School of....

Just for you.

 


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View Rudi Hedman's Profile Rudi Hedman Flag Caterham 12 Mar 17 1.22pm Send a Private Message to Rudi Hedman Add Rudi Hedman as a friend

Had a girl be sick over my shoulder in a dark comedy bar club years ago. I think she got a bit nervous knowing that sex was going to happen that date or next one maybe as it was our 3rd date possibly from memory. She may have been drinking more and faster than usual whilst overdoing the snogging. Didn't see her again. She lived in South West London and at the time I had little time other irons in the fire and no car for a short time. No need for one and had plenty of cash if I ever needed a cab so just didn't.

Had a girl say to me after a couple of dates maybe that it was going to be me who had to pay for dates as I earned more which wasn't that much more being early 20s and she had bills or rent etc. What and I don't? Anyway that ended that one. Probably should've taken that as her agreeing to a month of testing out her headboard before I used that as a splitting up reason but it p1ssed me off too much I wasn't thinking as selfishly as she was. Shame as she looked like Thandie Newton and as good looking. She had split up with her boyfriend and as a friend of friends before the dates happened she offered their spare bed next to her after a boozy night out. Got to kiss her peaches but no consent so only the dates in the following weekends. Was invited to a party a few years later and it was obvious she regretted it, but could also be due to work progression the mercenary. I think I pulled someone she knew there. Hazy memory.

 


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View Rudi Hedman's Profile Rudi Hedman Flag Caterham 12 Mar 17 1.26pm Send a Private Message to Rudi Hedman Add Rudi Hedman as a friend

A couple of times, when hungover, I've looked on the meet for sex in your local area websites to see if I recognise anyone on there. Haven't. Oh and haven't either.

Had a look at that video I think hoof hearted said had the woman in the black cab in old Coulsdon being hammered for 20 mins. Didn't recognise her or the area. If she does go to a gym as she says then someone will recognise her.

 


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