unfortunately girls, despite relishing the new found equality between the sexes, still want a man to be manly in the old fashioned sense, strong, protective, elusive, cold blah blah often to the degree where they are a total tosser with it.
trust me northern - as you get older you realise that going out with tossers is boring and all you want is to be looked after by someone on your level who really appreciates you and is a true mate - aaaaah!

had my heart broken beyond belief about 9 months ago - still painful but, and i mean this, i have come out stronger so it was the best and worst thing that could have happened to me... if you see what i mean?!

Well I had the thought, that now being 28 that she was, as they say, it. But since she been done gone, I am far happier.

I can travel the universe, seek out new civilisations, and boldy go where no, err, man has gone before.

Err....

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This is a real confessional type thread. Interesting to see how people are opening their hearts!

I don't know if it's easier to deal with heartbreak when you're younger but my own particular experience was when I was 38 and I really, really thought this particular person was the one forever. I was utterly devastated for nearly a year (all through the Palace admin period, in fact) and emerged much quieter and much more cynical. Still feel that way, to be honest. Those around me say that I've changed and, as I said before, I now find it almost impossible to trust someone to the extent that I can open up to them fully. Consequently, I've met people since then but it's always fizzled out because of my reluctance to let anyone in.

So Bexter is totally safe.

You ought to turn up on the 28th at the Selhurst Arms, Bexter!

Goodness is what you do. Not who you pray to.

in answer to the phone call question moose, i honestly don't know.

I don't know if anybody else feels the same, but, without meaning to sound cheesy, I really could tell you guys anything. Maybe its because I don't know you. Then again, I am a very upfront, open person. Another thing that came from being cheated on.

It was my dream to play for Palace and to make my debut. I've always played for the club so if I'm playing here, I wouldn't want to be anywhere else.

- John Bostock (Nov 2007)